If you want to learn how to seduce women, you’re going to need to familiarize yourself with the number one tool for seduction.
So, relationship ladders basically are a series of increasing commitments you’re going to get the girl to committed to aas she gets more comfortable with you. So there are four levels in the relationship ladder and they are:
- Hitting on her
- Trying to get in your pants
- When we have sex.
So the idea here is that human beings are bound by the psychological principle of commitment and consistency.
What that means is that if someone agrees to something they’re going to be much more likely to do it than if they never agreed to it. And if someone agrees to one thing, then they’re going to be more likely to agree to the next thing, and the next thing, and the next thing.
And that’s how people end up with $10,000 in extras on their cars they didn’t intend to get at the car dealership, and that’s how people add on fries and drinks and all sort of stuff at a fast-food restaurant. All of these various things happen because compliance, consistency and commitment all build momentum and all make you more likely to say yes in the future.
Can you see how powerful this can be for learning how to seduce women?
So we want to step a girl through these four step relationship ladder over the course of about 25 to 35 minutes, and this builds a huge amount of sexual attraction because eventually it gets the girl to imagine having sex with you and it gets her to passively accept you hitting on her, which is an intriguing arousing concept, and the fact that you’re trying to get in her pants, which is also arousing to her.
Unfortunately I don’t have enough time in this article to go through all of the various steps of commitment ladders but for now I’ll teach you how to set up the first two commitment ladders you will need to learn how to seduce women.
- Friendship. This commitment is easy to get once you have some attraction. All you have to do is throw out an imaginary scenario for the future by saying something like “ You’re a foodie too! We’re totally gonna be best food friends and share new restaurants with each other.” It doesn’t matter whether or not you ever talk about restaurants again, as long as you get her committed to doing it early on to build momentum.
- Hitting on her. Now we need to get her comfortable with us hitting on her and expressing interest. It’s often a BAD idead to hit on a girl too early or without getting her passive acceptance first. So what I do here is give her a compliment and then tack on at the end “ And I mean that even though I’m totally hitting on you.” 9/10 women laugh and say “At least your honest at this point.”
Ok, I hope you can see the incredible power of commitment and consistency and how you can use relationship ladders to get girls committed to seeing you again and eventually sleeping with you.No comments