Don’t tell me about sexual anxiety lol.
Guys think that approach anxiety is bad,
wait till they get past the approach and have the girl in a
place where sex can happen!
All that fear of “not knowing what to say” for
approach, intensifies when you have your girl in front
of you begging to sex her and “you can’t get it up”.
The easiest way to get rid of that shitty anxiety is to
make it playful and a challenge. Just tell her to get you
hard. Be playful and challenge her to turn you on.
Or, you can go down on her first then tell her to show you what she can do before you keep going…
Sinn tells you EXACTLY how you can become that
dominant man who will never suffer from sexual anxiety
and instead, make you “her best ever”
Seduction Roadmap looks tight… gonna spread the word about it on my site…
Can’t wait for the next two videos and teleseminar…
Nate Says:
Exciting and interesting stuff! Looking forward to the next videos!
Tommy Says:
Really appreciate the effort that went into this, Jon. Sometimes I think the most important thing is just to get out there, get yourself into good positions and the rest will take care of itself if you just remember to relax. And by and large I still think that is true (lined up a couple of dates this weekend by virtue of just going out this week, ordinarily that would never happen). But it’s worth remembering that at some point (the earlier the better) you really need to inject sexuality into the proceedings. I have no problem with attraction or comfort. In fact, I own them. Making things sexual on the other hand, is a bit alien to me. Otherwise, I wouldn’t be here watching this, I’d probably be making my own videos! So again, thanks for the advice and I look forward to the rest of the series.
Andrew Says:
Hey mate,
Great video cant wait for the next one. Had some killer sexual anxiety the other night. Went on a date, going well, she is driving, drops me home (as i didnt have the car)then comes the part i HATE. You’re home sitting in the car and then the first thing you say in ‘SO..’ (awkward silence) then it just went down hill from down there. I knew she wanted to kiss me and from that it could have been coffee, then who knows instead it was a crap kiss (completely cold – on my part, her cheek couldnt be much more into it) and a cold bed. I didnt completely burn out i got a 2nd date for this weekend, dvd marathon.. My thoughts were if i create a situation no amount of sexual anxiety can mess up then its bound to happen… right?? hope video 2 comes out in time!
A
haytham Says:
hey mate ,
FINALLY,THIS STUFF MAKES SENSE.
I follow news letters from all over, never got anywhere, TOO SMART FOR MY OWN GOOD, BUT YOU JUST POINTED OUT TWO KEY ANSWERS I’VE NEVER DONE ON A REGULAR BASIS, 1)joining the real world not just reading, 2)sexual attraction and expressing it.
Good stuff, can’t wait for the next one.
Cheers
focusing totally on getting laid is v refreshing, and I’d love to think it cd help a 61-yr old man who hasnt got laid in years (but has no other problems with women)
Kyle Says:
Hey great video sinn. You really touched different areas.
Robert Says:
Like the idea where you give out some REAL information, rather than the competition videos kinda just talk in circles, and don’t get anything usefull said.
dave Says:
i like your concise and direct approach getting laid is what were all after weather we care to admit it or not and having just gotten out of a 9 year relationship i need to get back into the game (no pun intended) and quick success is the best way to get on your feet i am waiting with bated breath for the next video
Awesome man, I’m glad I don’t have to pay for it. Although I realize that it’s very valuable information. Thanks.
ddupre Says:
you got me sitting still i’ll be back
Dean Says:
Sounds like it has some great advice and am looking forward to the others. Was a little turned off by what I felt was overly rubbishing the other techniques although the points you make are sound.
You’re addressing very important deficiencies that the community has and I applaud you for taking action about it. Mentioning other schools of thought by name was also very ballsy since I notice this community likes to bash without name-dropping.
Btw, heard you on the MM CD series not too long ago and you seemed to be pretty solid back then too so I’m expecting you to have come a long way
Game On!
Numan Says:
It was great to watch something I always belived was true rather thn M.M
I am from turkey so alfa male action is so high I dont hold my emotions back and say wht I fell woman always love this thkns Sin lots to learn
scapegoat Says:
enjoyed the video
Captain Jack Says:
The thing that always bothered me about M.M. is that it was ALWAYS focussed on approaching and just the first few minutes of attraction building. Building attraction with women in a bar isnt my problem, its building the ‘comfort’ (which isnt really comfort as i learned the hard way) to actually have sex.
Im really looking forward to your next videos because you said what i have been thinking for a few months now.
I knew it! I knew that it didn’t work to leave out the sex-talk! Thank you for bringing this up, makes gaming so much easier.
George Says:
Interesting video that showed me an awesome new look at the situation! Thanks Sinn!
BlackTrax Says:
This is really good stuff…thanks a bunch for posting it.
Are you going to explain how to do the techniques (ie. sexual arousal, 1-on-1-to-Sex techniques) in detail in the other videos? I really want to figure out how this works.
orlando Says:
awesome stuff, do you have any material to help a college student like me? because i think its different when you try to attract people you already know and constantly see everyday. thanks for your help and cheers for the brilliant video.
Kenny Says:
Hey man,
Awesome info and really can’t wait for the rest.
Oh, and no, I am not that Asian Kenny, although I am Asian, hehe.
Anyway, having sex with 5 girls a month almost seems like impossible and must be fantastic. I so deserve to walk with a hot girl every other guy will be jealous of. I live in the Netherlands and you have no idea how many ugly and fat guys walk with an amazing hot babe.
Things are definitely gonna change after your videos.
Thank you, Jon Sinns
Grant Says:
I’m interested in this idea, but at the same time it seems like you’re saying “mystery did it wrong, here’s how you really do it” but you just restate a lot of the stuff he is saying. it almost seems like you didn’t grasp a lot of his stuff, but i do like your stress on sexuality right from the get go, which might come off as sleezy but we’ll see. very interested to see the rest of the videos
Pikasso Says:
Hey Sinn, first of all thanks for coming down to Sydney at the Medina Hotel that one time last year. Great seminar. Really enjoyed it and have come very far since then.
In this video you posted, one HUGE thing i was reminded of was the sexual escalation both physically and verbally. The teasing, the humorous implied ideas and playfulness early on. Some great ideas there mate. Cheers
joe Says:
This ties in totally with what has been producing cnsistent results for me in the past 6 months. As soon as I talk o a girl, I start kino’ing – namely figure a way of getting to rub her neck just below her ears. A great way into this is to say ‘Forget palm reading- I can tell a lot about you just from examining your neck’. Then when I touch her neck and tug on her hair, I whisper into her ear ‘ you are a very sensual person’.
They love it:-)
Kuro Says:
Intrigued.
This really is the area I have the greatest trouble transitioning to. Getting from being friendly to getting sexy is the greatest mental hurdle and you’re naturally hesitant to bare intentions at this critical juncture in case your refused. I can see though how this is the really critical move you should be doing. Demonstration of confidence with your sexuality is probably the single most attractive thing you could do in interactions with women. I find it is social conditioning which most impacts on these situations. Fear of being nailed for sexual harassment is bad enough fear of what others may think affects both you and the girl you’re pursuing. It’s a tricky area. Thanks for your info.
Jos Says:
damn, this is nice stuff, you really hit the spot there.
riccardo Says:
Hey man liked the video. hope it s not one of the infinite advertising videos out there which focus on keeping up tension forever and just try to sell the product at last. i trust yours wont.
i dont have much sexual anxiety, when the girl is in my hands i usually do what i want. my problem is the “how do i lead to that?” after so much infos around, my head is exploding. i dont care about theories, steps etc.. so i hope finally you could show something new to show that which every male has in- sexual tension- and dont look like a pervert. to make a cheesy movie example – 007 – ok it s a movie – but fucks like a beast and does not hang around showing disinterest…he states sexual intent…
be different from others..show real new infos!
thanks
riccardo
Hi john. Im from Bilbao (Spain). I´m really tired of all the stuff in the internet related with seduction. I find this video very interesting. I hope you can offer us something really good in the next videos. Thank you very much, and congratulations, you make a lot of good work.
Max Says:
Some of it is really useful Info cheers!
Laery Says:
Ok, getting laid is nice but does mot make me really happy.
I want a LTR, is this method also valid to start an LTR ?
You seem to focus only on Sex
Boyo Says:
Wow,and here i thought Mystery and Style’s Game was the ultimate! What’s really weird is that i have such bad approach anxiety but my sexual anxiety isn’t as bad, what’s the quickest way to get over this. I’ve just finished reading the Game, Mystery Method, Venusian Arts, and alot more but still can’t really deal with the approaches, I’m a second Year Architecture student.
Jakub Kolcar Says:
It’s very interesting opinion about the book The Game and teachings of Neill Straus. I have always thought that it is the basement of all the pick-up teachings but now you really confused me. I am looking forward to your next video because it’s gonna be very helpful. Also thanks fot his one, you revealed a lot of useful informations. And your personal story is very interesting to listen to.
Best regards,
Jakub
And I think it should be a great a idea you to tell us some missions (or exercises), for example make same openers during a few days.and so on…
Munky Says:
Its so good to finally meet you Sinn! Cant wait for next video!
shakespeare Says:
i love the video. i’ve been practising game for about 3 months and have reached a mid-level skill in game. i can open pretty well and get lots of attraction- even my comfort game is pretty tight and i keep an interesting conversation going. however i can’t sexually escalate. even getting a make-out is pretty hard for me! i have realised that with all my skill and ability in game i still can’t get laid!!! so for me the above video has really struck a cord. sexual escalation is now the main focus of my game and hopefully after i sort it out i will start getting and end product for all my hard work
John Says:
I can say it’s been an real problem for me, except every great once in an while where everything just flows.
riccardo Says:
Also man, the infos is great but could you explain a bit more the subject of sexual attraction? it s too briefly stated at the end
thanks
riccardo
Farida Says:
I think the information is great!!! We read so much about being the nice and decent guy, approaching, openers,build rapport and escalate in phases b4 sex.it is a great topic to talk 2 women about but rily u cant keep talkin abt it all day like u r devoid of interesting topics other than sex and this makes u appear horny or a pervert lookin for a sexual adventure partner. Sinn, lookin forward 2 the other videos, gre8 info by the way!!!! i Rily hav sumfin personal 2 ask and talk 2 u abt. Rily personal. How do i reach u wiv dis information?
Dear Sinn.
this is some awesome advice for the guys around the world.. I loved every word of your presentation.. Man this is straight up to the point.. no dragging and in bed in no time… I love the concept of same night lay in less than 4 hours of meeting a beautiful blond for the first time in one of the hottest night clubs in any given city around the globe.. Man I should take some professional training from you to polish up my game with these new strategies of your.. Cheers and all the best for you hard earned skills.
John Says:
Lots of ?’s. Very interesting since I have noticed most of the material out there is all towards building attraction, not sustaining it or going beyond it into the bedroom.
My main ? is, Should you use different approaches on different woman or the same fundamental approach on all women?
RelaxD Says:
Does make sense, really looking forward to the next vid keep it up Sinn(Y). Although I do have a question: I wanna know HOW you create sexual attraction whitout conveying (maybe negative?) interest in the lady. I mean aren’t you then the tenth guy tonight(if u’re in a club for example) who just wants to have sex with her? If U create the right sexual attraction, then off course your chances of getting laid will rise. Shedding my light on this, still learning…
Justin Says:
Sounds very promising.Focused and practical
Steve Says:
Great video John, It all makes sense. Approaching is easy, getting stuck in a non sexual friend zone has been a difficulty for me. I’m glad you are teaching how to make interactions sexual and how easy it can be. Thanks for producing the Seduction Road Map, can’t wait for the other videos and teleseminar.
RelaxD Says:
keep up the good work sinn
Randy Says:
i never thought of using sexual tension thank you.
nova Says:
great video ! makes alot of sence in getting the women into bed faster and more frequent!does make gaming alot more easier. cnt wait 4 the nxt 1
Alejandro Says:
awesome! changed my mindset a little bit, but I’m openend minded to hear what you have to say..
Seth Says:
I used to be really into Mystery Method, and pick up. Your info and videos are great because they don’t rely on complicated modeling or following rules stringently. I’m always looking for better ways to work out better, more “natural” game. Plus, you’re funny as F.
Sinn, I’m 60 and have pretty good luck talking to girls. At first they’re into me but loose interest pretty fast. I can’t wait to try some of this.
Salsa Says:
Sounds very interesting, and sexual anxiety is exactly what I got.
I’ve had it since I was like 12. Other boys in school mocked me for physical differences sexually.
Today I’m 36 and I feel kind of bored and non-sexual towards women when it comes to sex. I love touching and being close to them, as I am a great salsa dancer, but that’s where it stops. I would like to feel like I was 21 when I was horny as hell. I’m not sure that’s the reason for my body today feeling so weak sexually… scared I guess for being good enough so it shuts down.
This is where I need help to get passed these disabling thoughts.
That’s my feedback,
Thanks a lot for the video and your work!
/Salsa
Alfred K. Says:
A lot this of what you said are things that I think about. They’re places I get stuck intermittently.
For instance, this is with the same girl mind you, 1st: I was with her a couple of weeks ago, we were on a beach, chillin out, talkin’, having a couple of beers and relaxing, she said she wanted to sleep over cause where she lived was far, this equaled a lay. I should mention that I was under the influence of a little beer and Xanax, we wanted to experiment a little bit.
But last week, this same girl is at my apt, sleeping over, we’re watching a movie and for whatever reason, she was doing the same thing that she did before, LMR, and it’s not like I couldn’t overcome it, but I didn’t, something happened that made me get off of her and I froze or did it wrong or whatever. I just didn’t get the result that I wanted, that she probably wanted.
Whatever the case maybe, but I’ve encountered that several times with various girls. It’s not like they’re not attracted to me, it definitely feels like I have an issue with escalating or correct escalation, regardless of the fact, I’m highly motivated to hear and act upon what you’ve got. I always thought I might have to go to a bootcamp to get this taken care of, but maybe that’s not the case.
Altogether, it was a good video and definitely more content or potential in this one video than I’ve seen or had in a long time. I’m hyped.
I have listened to the first video and it seems to confirm what I already thought. I am having problems with a certain lady trusting me enough to go out with me. She says I am a player. I am taken by her, can’t seem to get past that comment. Thought your videos might enlighten me on how to correct that perception.
Rus Says:
Loved the video. I always thought there was a faster way to get a girl in bed. It never took long in college.
Jay Says:
The Mystery Method isn’t ”incorrect” but like all PUA systems out there, they generally just work for one specific type of girl. Thats essentially the problem. Even what Adam Lyons and Brad P teach generally caters to one type of girl. This is why you will only succeed 10-15 percent of the time because the female population is so diversified. Judging from the video, this new method is most likely going to work for girls who are open with their sexuality. But some girls are not and they like the idea of romance.
A good example, my friend was seeing this girl awhile ago but things ended badly because he was sexual. The girl basically said, ”You would have gotten sex from me if you had been more amourous”. Like I said, different girls, different results. As in this case, the girl did not like a sexual approach or sexual topics. Instead, the way into her pants was romance.
Francis Radice Says:
A very useful talk. Gives encouragement. The idea of introducing sex as a normal topic of conversation
with a new woman surprised and delighted me. I can’t wait to hear your next video.
Norm Says:
Like Phil, I am 60. But I am not dead or over the hill. I like \beautiful young women. By far the best money I spent was buying The Sexual Key, which teaches how to build attraction using just words and stories. So far, I have used it with women as young as 21 and got them to come to my place. But it never leads to sex. So I can’t wait to see the next videos, because I know I can approach, build rapport, get phone numbers and dates. But I come off as Mr. Nice Guy and not the guy who will rock their world sexually. This is good stuff and I hope it isn’t all a tease to pitch us on some expensive course.
awesome! I get laid alot, 1 steady GF and a few satellites. But none of them are really what i want, and it uses up my free time juggling these girls…time that COULD be used finding something better. Any comments?
Rhett Says:
Great stuff love to see the rest of it!
Alessandro Says:
Hi Jon,
Thanks for the video! I understand that you should explain the basic concept, and that getting sexual can help you to store energy and get to the results more effectively, But why don’t you explain more in details the technique to be used? which phrases in which situation..some more specific example that could be used as guiding line?
Pol Says:
Hey men! This is awesome material. You showed me that seduce may be something simple and not only a pile of unnecessary rules, techniques and routine. I think it could be another breakthrough approach to seduction
thanks men,
Pol
Squid Says:
So far what you’ve said will be great for guys first getting into the community and trying to wade through the sea of material available.
However, despite being a virgin myself, I have already found that being more direct and sexual in nature always gives me better results and more satisfaction with my pickup. I’m definitely interested in what you believe is the best way to go about this. Me and a couple of my friends first heard about game in mid ’08 (through “The Game”)when we were 16 and stumbled our way through trying to get some consistency throughout ’09. I’ve got to the point of being considered a player by my social circles (I know I’m not the first, but it’s annoying getting those comments while a virgin, heh).
The chance to sleep with girls has come up a couple of times, but I’ve never sealed the deal because they tended to be girls I gamed ‘for practice’ and didn’t really care about. Cause of this firm belief I was above their value I fired off alot of sexual comments, innuendos and actions, not giving a fuck. So, of course, they became more and more interested/invested/aroused. But that just might be an inner game issue of my own, getting needy on girls I’m attracted to, etc.
I’ve found that some girls have lapped up the sexual/jokes and innuendos yet others throw out shit tests about me being sleazy etc. They all seem attracted though, so I imagine it’s a matter of timing. I’d be very interested to see your opinion on the key to getting consistent positive responses to sexual framing and escalation.
Either way I won’t be able to attend your teleseminar since I’m broke at the moment, but I’ve found your blog, videos and advice to be a breath of fresh air. I’m taking steps to follow your suggested “Where to start with game”, which is an example of the logical and easy to understand way you present your knowledge.
Good luck with everything,
Squid
Ells Says:
Can’t wait to see the rest. This video comes at a curious time for me. I was actually with a girl the other night and I came to the realization that I’m great getting girls back to my bedroom and makeout and all that, but as soon as it’s time to move past that, I lock up. I started looking for some solutions, and this is what I found. I hope this delivers.
Thanks,
Ells
bRYAN Says:
To the point easily understandable,very good work and very helpful. Thanks a lot.
Mike R Says:
This is the best seduction stuff i have ever herd and think too if you throw sexual tension in first then they can see you as a sexual person early but just a sprinkle with attraction on top lol
damn Says:
Good stuff.Looking forward to more videos like this.
jeff Says:
Hey, I have to be honest. Last weekend I was chatting up a gorgeous girl in a bar and I had her attention most of the night. I was even getting a lot of KINO across BUT I realise now that I wasn’t talking about anything sexual because I wanted to be a good guy. At the end of the evening, when I tried to get her on a date, I crashed and burned and she started talking to another guy. I was close but no cigar. I think I know what I did wrong now.
Alan Says:
John I really appreciate this information. I was married 35 years and divorced for 2.5 yrs. I have gone out with about 12-15 women and nothing.
I have learned that I had a case of Nice Guy.
I am working strongly on that issue. Your program should help me a lot.
Marine Says:
Kind of like combining the MM & DYD. David D always says to never miss out talking sexually, talk about sex and tease about it if she says a sex synonym in a non-sexual context like “i was blowing the… “-you cut in-”I can’t believe you’re trying to get me into bed already. I just met you.” and that you MUST be the one to start talking about it, though he doesn’t have an actual method.
Great video Sinn!
I’m going to be telling people about your product on my site and offering a BONUS for it because after checking out the product, it’s really good.
Looking forward to this
Brandon
TextHerTonight.com
andy Says:
cant wait for next episode great stuff!
Skan Says:
Man, this is awesome. I love the way you explain things, and also (not in a gay maner), i love the way you speak, really slow, deep voice, it makes it easier to understand everything.
Can’t wait for the following stuffs !
Thanks !
Darius Says:
I’m very interested for your next posts… you claim to have sex in less than 7 hours, I went to some kind of seminar of european PUA’s, one of them was adam sleazy, he claimed to have sex with girls in less than an hour from the moment he opened the set! he also claims that his fastest set was 5 to 10 minutes. he, like you, said that every PUA is doing it wrong and that his method is te best. didn’t like his charisma anyway, he was too narcistic and arrogant. you should google him. anyway looking forward to the videos!
Kevin Says:
Really enjoyed the video.
Finally something that makes sense too.
Really looking forward to the next videos.
Alex Says:
Exciting and interesting indeed. All of what you say does make sence… but all those other things about raising your value and being a wanted commodity inside a bar did make sense too. Your video was fun, straight to the point and kept interesting unlike many of its kind which are boring. I’ve also witnessed other PUA methods which mainly focus on how to approach a woman and don’t say the key ideas on how to get her attraction or sexual interest. I figured out that if you’re not good looking enough these are crap.
And i’m so frustrated with this whole thing. My looks are very average(if not below) and i’m desperate for some ideas that will get me more women. I know I’m a great and interesting guy like many others out there but i’m having so much trouble getting the interest of a girl. To say nothing about getting her on my bed. Thank you for this video and i look forward to the next one
Chris Says:
MM touches on all the stuff that happens after attraction, not just attraction, and that 15 minutes thing is Tao of Steve. MM teaches that “attraction is only a tool” over and over again. I have never taught for Mystery, but I am assuming that maybe Sinn knows something I don’t that actually happened in the sessions. Maybe during the live sessions Mystery and Strauss focus on the beginning too much. Also, you can tell that in the Mystery Method book that Mystery got kind of impatient towards the end and rushed everything from C2 forward. Maybe he had a deadline.
This is all academic; I don’t think what Sinn is saying is wrong, and I’ll look forward to seeing the rest of the videos. I myself get stuck at the “waypoint” of pulling a girl out of the club. I get good dances, but I always want to eject if I don’t do everything perfectly.
The main thing to teach someone like me is how to stay in there when the going gets a little tough. I heard Sinn say that “you don’t have to attract a girl every minute of the interaction.” Teach more about HOW to back off. It seems like when I back off, some other clown rushes in and takes my spot, or the girl loses ALL attraction for me and goes on to someone else.
Neil Says:
Jon is right. If you want sex with a girl, the best approach is to be sexual with her right from the moment you meet. If the girl likes you at all, which you can tell by her body language and smile, she will greatly appreciate the candor.
altu Says:
great video makes a lot of sense of avoiding all the lengthy crap like attraction and all come to the main point SEX. That’s what most of my buddies do and they get laid left and right. Can’t wait for the next video.
Tommy Jones Says:
GREAT I CANT WAIT TO GET LAID!
Jon Says:
Hey Jon
I always felt some seduction techniques did not work for me, especially the whole “pick up line” stuff, how lame is that?
Can’t wait to see your next videos man. thanks for bringing new elements to the game !
Paul Romita Says:
Thanks, interesting material. I will be back.
James Says:
Points to the very reasons why guys did’nt get laid and provides remedies to overcome it. Hope to see the rest of the videos.
Nick Says:
You would end on a cliffhanger. This video really got me in the mindset to learn exactly what you are going to be teaching. I look forward to hearing what this new system is all about and applying it in conjunction to your Day Game stuff.
Not bringing up something sexual near the beginning of an interaction is DEFINITELY shooting yourself in the foot… [Insert any friend zone story from high school here].
Mark Says:
im still kinda puzzled on this 1st step on the Seduction Road Map u said that u have 2 make sexual attraction 1st when u see the girl or after uv been talking 4 a while
Dede Says:
So far, so nice.
I am tuned for the next video. Best to you, Sinn.
Steve Says:
Thanks for the great info. Keep it coming! Looking forward to the next video.
Tony Says:
I fall into that group of guys who can talk to women without any real trouble but tries to not talk about sex, but I guess it makes perfect sense to signal your intentions early
That way if you have a real prud you can bail out
Like Nick above, I’m really looking forward to your day game stuff
Anthony Says:
I’m interested to see what else you have to say john, I really like the analogy of woman being a step behind then men, and that they need to be stimulated and turned on physically, this makes sense although I don’t see how you really differ than mystery. The A3 push pull game seems similar to this, although the sexual aspect is generally ignored in the comfort phase of his game. How can men portray their sexuality to women without looking like a creep? I hope you can elaborate your main idea for us and give us more examples.
samual Says:
i like this
Dan Says:
I think we all can feel that this is very exciting stuff because it ALL make sense! lol I think a lot of guys knew about this in the back of their minds but don’t do it enough. If you address it to the world, more guys will do it MORE OFTEN. “Seduction starts at hello” crazy quote but it’s sooo true lol Thanks bud, keep it up! You are the man to do it…
Teo Says:
How do you apply your techique to on-line dating ?
Al Says:
Extremely insightful. Loved it!
Baldwin Says:
YOU HAVE MY ATTENTION!!!!
chuck Says:
Excellent video. You really got my attention with this one. It seems your game has evolved light years ahead of the community in general. I appreciate your honesty in critiquing the Mystery method and in pointing out the flaws with seduction teaching. Students will usually just be told it is they who are flawed not the teaching. Looking forward the rest of the videos in this series.
Florentin Says:
Hi! I my name is Florentin I have been gaming and learning game for two years now. I have sleppt with over 100 women so far and I havent really been out that much.
I like your video. I started with mistery method and found it very boring after a while. I dident like to use rules and bounderies in my interaction with a woman. I wanted it to be more free and fun. Which I nowdays manage to get. but Im still confused sometimes with what thechnique is best! direct or indirect? playing hard to get or just be honest with what I feel in the moment?
I found that it really just depends on the situation and the girl! The more you seduce girls the better you become at reading threm, and thats when you know what to do and when to do it!
Greate video Im with you 100% and looking forward to see more:)
Thanks
Bone Says:
Awesome man!
That´s the kind of game we need! We need to know how to get more pussy, more women, i really liked the video, but i wonder if all that sexual escalation physically and verbally, can be done in any environment, such as during the day, or during a date with a girl. I´m asking because actually yesterady i went on a date with a girl (who i´ve kissed before), and i couldn´t kiss her !!!!, you may be thinking, what a fucking AFC, yes you are right!, that´s why i need your help.
Also, Dear Sinn, i want to know if you are aware of the “other” methods out there designed to get women into bed quickly, especially: The Attration methods by Magic, Stealth Attraction by Gambler from PUA training. And Real world seduction by SwingCat. Do you know any of these? What do you think of them?
The Swingcat´s book is actually very helpfull and full of techniques like open loop, push pull, fourfold metaframe, prizability, etc.
Ok, i´m lloking forward to the next video! (Your web page is going to favourites for sure).
Take care!
Jonathan Says:
This is huge. The only close that matters is a f*** close. I have no problem opening, building rapport, using kino and kiss closing. Sometimes I end up practicing on women who eventualy volunteer thier number but I have no intention of ever calling. I don’t like being a jerk that way but I can number close all day long. My phone is full of numbers that went nowhere.
I need help. I’ve only had 3 same night lays with a best time of just over 2 hrs (from “Hello” to “wait, let me put this condom on”) and $0 dollars spent. Show us more John on how to bed more babes in one night. Until I decide that I’d like a wife, this is all that matters.
THEO Says:
VERY VERY GOOD. LOOKING FOWARD TO MORE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
scott Says:
Well you’ve got me wanting the next video. So tell me, how do you go about creating this attraction and get someone interested over the internet. Say on a dating site?
mycupoftea Says:
This is sheet; where is the method? Where are the examples to work off of?
Joe Says:
This video really made a lot more sense to me. and i cant wait to learn more!
Gary Says:
Great video. Probably the best “free” video I have seen and I have seen a lot of them.
I also like your concept and, like you, have had many reservations about the Mystery Method.
You brought up some really important stumbling blocks like sexual anxiety.
I am interested in hearing more from you and your method.
Dave Says:
John,
Thank you for the video. I have been married for a while and out of the dating game. I am looking forward to the next video. I can use all the help you can give me.
keaorider Says:
I have read and studied materials by “Mystery”, David Shade and Richard La Runa. I’m feeling you are about to tell us to go for the artery and eliminate the extra steps or bs, if so then I ‘m all in.
Mark Says:
It sounds great, can’t wait for the next video.As regards questions
I’m thinking of social circle game or areas that haven’t been covered before like someone that was just introduced to you which isn’t a cold approach.
Or not being over shadowed by your more talkative friends when you find yourself in the company of girls they know or girls in a bar.
TariQ Says:
interesting and glad you’re taking the time to do this… but is this leading up to you trying to sell your book.. the secret is in your book type thing?? I have read Neil straus\s the game and followed a bit of mystery’s method too… so I like how you have tackled those 2 big names and believe you have something better… I think you would find me an interesting person to talk to let alone me finding you interesting… send me a message if you have the time.
Kelly Says:
Nice video! I’m interested in anything that reduces memorizing routines and steps! It seems like all my natural instincts to do whatever I want in early-interaction with women is quelled by my vast knowledge of game and lack of actual real-life interactions, (ie too much reading).
Very interested in what’s next! Also I’m wondering if you have any thoughts on why I can maintain approach anxiety without ever having suffered much in the way of sexual anxiety? I read some comments about someone wanting missions and would greatly appreciate any assistance in missions that actually gain useful experience, if that’s upcoming, GREAT! . Also, mad props for not selling this information, I hope this opens things up more for everyone.
Cheers!
Daniel Says:
Well, Jon, first off, congratulations! You could uncodify some concepts about Venusian Arts. Thanks so much for allowing us to know the truth about The Game and the Mystery Method. We men need to have good sex, and I hope you can teach us how to have women come up with having sex and wake up their hidden both sexual desires and fantasies, so as you know, although they like sex as us men, they’re oppressed. Once again, thanks so much and congratulations.
BBomb Says:
Hungry to know more!
ravi Says:
seems to be good. I will try this and give you my feedback
Haychubb Says:
Yah Sinn thanks that was a very convincing presentation. Your comments on sex talk in the first five minutes have raised questions. Do you mean to say women are very open to talking about sex with strange men? This theory goes directly against the Way of Gun. Is Gunwitch wrong? Have women changed their way of operating ?(consciously relaxed morals )
brent Says:
good start.looking forward for more.
G Says:
You’ve got my attention and I’ve looked at quite a few things….
Bob Says:
Great video – looking forward to the next one. Especially enjoyed the concept of working sex into the conversation early – putting it in her mind. Would be great if you could give a few concrete examples of how you’ve done this. Thanks.
LG Says:
Good stuff bro ,
At this point in my life I got 2 jobs happening little time for myself but I rather SPEND my time meeting and get laid fast as possible with the little free time I got. You read my mind. The many lovely ladies( strippers, shooters , dancers ,etc. etc) is what I want for now. Look forward to the next video.
Sam I Am Says:
We’ll done. Very professional. A breakthrough. solid.
Wily Says:
When I’m done with grad-school and get a job I’m going to purchase some of your products to 1. Improve further 2. Pay you something for all the help I’m now getting for free.
john Says:
AND he’s asian?!?!
gez Says:
loved the video….super cool and useful..dude you have it nailed ! i can only immagine the work and determination you put into this.
Could you create video or videos of you actually talking to a girl so that we can see exactly how you do it in different scenarios.
gez.
Ricky Says:
interesting. Will try to use some of this as its very different from what I have read before
Brian Says:
Looks like I finally am going to be able to get on the train I’ve been missing!
Ben Says:
I can say that based on using just your qualification CD I’ve gotten 2 lays this month and wouldn’t have gotten it with out as I know where my sets go when I didn’t use it. I’m very interested to hear the next two videos.
Larry Says:
Interesting stuff. I got over sexual anxiety early, but have always had problems with sexual escalation and sexualizing conversations. I look forward to the new videos.
Ron Says:
Very good information.
Armand Says:
sexualizing the conversation seems like a no-brainer – how could we think we can do without it? thanks for the common sense
Milka Says:
Good stuff, Jon!
Being a “nice guy” I have some attractive girls in the “friend-zone”…
I regularely bring up sexual themes in a playful and confident manner, achieving promising response, but still fail in the ultimate “transition”.
Would love your advice for these “final steps”…
THX, Milka
Daniel Says:
Hello!
I really appreciate this stuff and I absolutely agree with it.
It formed my mindset a little bit and it’s another good thing that if you want to do something then you have to mention it right from the start…
Your advise and information are amazingly sound, in my view. The amazing part is that a lot of is has not been (generally) told/taught before. We all know that
A – none of us is BORN with the knowledge and insights that you are presenting,
B – that what you present ADDS to general and individual human happiness and wellbeing (of BOTH halfs of the population, male AND female),
C – that this material is not (readily, clearly) available elsewhere
Combining these three aspects obviously leads to the conclusion that you are performing a service that is both quite POSITIVE and long overdue.
So, THANKS for offering it clearly and soundly.
Actually, your information concerns so-called one-night stands, only In my view). It covers such male/female interactions quite well, in my view, but this interaction type is of course LIMITED. Limited but, strangely enough, at the same time widely transgressing generally advocated moral boundaries. Not transgressing any natural human instincts and desires, but al the same I would expect many socalled moral authorities to consider your information cause for frowning eyebrows (i.e. controversial or even more negative).
Mentally and physicalle, sex ralationships are by no means a simple subject. You covered your chosen part (male seduction leading up to one-night stands)admirably well, I feel, thereby providing a GREAT and innovative service.
But, of course, you cover only a quite limited PART of the total human male-female-interaction and love area…
Personally, I would prefer to see your service as part of that TOTAL field, which is so incomparably all-important in our life and daily living.
However, I am well aware of the fact that it is better to cover a limited subject well than to address a larger subject vaguely…
I wish youi lots of success, Jon. I feel that you really DESERVE it.
Gerdviet Says:
Great video!
Dave Says:
Sin…I am just over 50yrs and have been doing naturally what you bring up for many years (since 15), but never realized what I have been doing and It is interesting to hear it straight forward. Looking forward to the rest you are offering.
I do have one question, I have had great luck when I have let myself relax and not really worry about getting someone (almost a “I don’t care if you blow this” attitude)…but blow it a lot when I am working it (I think they can smell the fear). I know I need to chill and realize, that there are a ton of them out there. When I mark one and go after her the percentages go down for success. Just a thought…..well thank’s, looking forward to the next transmission.
SEISMIC Says:
this is the best stuff i’ve eva seen !!
Rob K Says:
This is really good stuff, the relaxed, honest approach has always worked for me, I really like how smoothly Jon transitions. This also proves that you can say almost anything to a girl if you are smiling, confident and grounded. No “pick-up” lines required at all. Years ago, I invested in David D’Angelos Double your Dating and learned so much about the psychology of how women think and what we men do wrong. He first opened my eyes to this world as well as being more relaxed in business. Women have their own interpretation of what you say, so be upfront and they will usually chuckle and aggressively go after you to make out wth you, which, when you make manly grunting noises while playing in the nape of the neck and ears, always result in really good sex. If you are skilled enough to give her 3 or 4 orgasms with your tongue and fingers, she WILL melt and become like a loyal, grateful dog. At this point, there is virtually nothing she won’t do for you. Wish I’d known about this stuff 30 years ago. I’m 51 and one of my GFs is 30, we’ve been in a low commitment relationship for over 3 years, he’s easily a 9.5, has offers from other guys all the time, pays for all our restaurant outings, the meals at her place, a Corvette for me, the holidays we’ve had and basically does whatever I ask. I tease her all the time about crazy shit like telling her not to gain any more weight because she’s getting close to my weight cap of 110 lbs and to be careful, because after 110, she’s gone. She finds it funny because she’d so tight and fit and I’m the one who should lose about 10 or 15 lbs. When her jealousies show up or she becomes demanding, I let her know things aren’t going to work out if she continues, as soon as she sees me going for the door, her fear of abandonment issues surface and she usually gets back to my program within an hour or two. Imagine a seriously hot chick that could easily have any guy she wants, is jealous and worried about other woman taking over her position as main squeeze?? I don’t get it either but who cares… This is going to sound like I’m bragging or lying, yet in the last 7 or 8 years, I’ve enjoyed exponentially more honey pots attached to smart, stunning women than during my entire life up to that point. I wish Jon every success and hope he follows through with the videos he’s promised. I’m impressed so far…
Simon Says:
Awesome Vid Sinn, really u made me feel more secure in this pick up stuff cuz being a “mistery method” was way too fake for me. i’m just excited to watch the rest of the videos and excited to start using them right now!
I just finished your video and I thought it was very educational. I really liked the information you set forth. I’m looking forward to more of what you have to offer. I think it’ll help me and alot of other guys.
Leon Thompson Says:
This is beautifull straight to the point direct with little compromise and
in a masculine way,it’s funny you should talk about Neill Strauss as I’ve read his first book and half way through his second and I’ll be honest it seems to work, but your method is very convincing and exciting and is actually designed to the way my brain works naturally which is cool I’m excited and am looking forward to the rest.
One other question are things not hot between you and Neill anymore what’s the crack?
Charlie Says:
great advice, I like the commons sense approach and the way you’ve though this through. well done. better than the other bullshit I’ve read
René Says:
This is really mind-blowing and simplifies a lot.
Thank you very much.
René Says:
Hi Jon,
how is it possible to avoid the flinching or the nervousness when making a big move?
Glenn Says:
I’m a very youthful, good-looking 54 year-old who thought I was doing well pulling a hot girl 2 or 3 times a year. Pretty lame compared to you guys, but I’ve only recently started making a serious study of pick-up. In fact, compared to you, my game sucks, and I end up in the “friends” shit-bin all too often. Jon: being a lot younger, your game is bars and clubs, which works great for your age-group, but which I’m uncomfortable with, (besides not having any reliable wings, and living an hour from the nearest night-life). Can you refer me to any Day Game material that incorporates your style , with a more aggressively sexual slant? Also, I’m looking forward to seeing some vids of live PU’s. Your insight into attraction and female psychology is the most in-depth, rationally though-out discovery I’ve heard.
Poder Says:
I enjoyed this video.
I agree that a lot of the information out there does not focus on sexualizing the conversation. And often when I bring up sex during the interaction, the woman seems to shut down. I would like more information on how to create sexual attraction right at the opening and have it continue throughout the interaction rather than it be some separate phase somewhere down the line.
MOX Says:
Im one of those guys that you mention, the guy that gathers lots of info and rearely put it into practise..Im realy liking your method for the sole reason that its simple and stragiht to the point “getting laid”.. I love the fact that you cam from the school of mystery and style and now have gathered the good from that system which I agree is flawed at times and put the best of your very own talented PUA knowlede into what is now your teachings .
comment 145 Says:
Theres really nothing bad to say about this. It makes sense and it clears everything up.
Mike Says:
about time there is someone out there that debunks this game ,interested in the next videos
Delroy Says:
Hey Jon -
I want to say thanks for all the great information you have been giving about approaching and attracking beautiful women. I am 56 yo and have just laid a 28 yo girl two night ago by using your technique of approaching, building attraction and inviting her home. However, I have most of the techniques it takes to approach women, but I still fall victim to fear of approaching sometimes. It is something I want to conquer once and for all. I do know it will go away with time but do you have any suggestion to get rid of it quickly.
Phil Says:
Hey man you hit the nail on the head. thansk cant wait to learn more!!!!
Rob Says:
Sinn -
Definitely interesting material. It seems to resonate with me fairly deeply. Is it possible that we guys kind of already know at least some of this this stuff intuitively, and are simply conditioned to think as “nice” asexual beings as we grow up?
R,
Rob
JOe Says:
Great ideas you have and I like how you present your ideas. You make sense about your methods.
yeah, great video. i feel i am half way there already; but, a lot of girls will shoot you down no matter what you do. i’m sure they can be conquered if you want to put the time in. i don’t. fuck ‘em.
Sankalp Says:
Sankalp this side from India.I watched this two videos.Its very amazing and worth chasing.This is one of the gratest alpha strategy that i have used couple of years before.Just focus on the powerful temptation and deadliest seduction that a womens really deserves,but certain consequences are there that plays an important factor.For example—to initiate a conversation without offering her any drink.
I really appreciate that.
Please keep up the good work.
MAJIN Says:
Great Stuff Sinn!
Could you elaborate more on your what you do for opening and for your attraction phase since you’re straying away from the original Mystery Method?
majin
Austin Says:
sorry about this but it wouldnt let me play the video so how do you get it to play
Brett Segel Says:
Seriously though dude, I’ve been doing this seduction thing for about 3 years now, and SO FEW PEOPLE ever come out with new stuff, or good stuff, but every time I come back to your teachings, I learn something new. I honestly appreciate it. You have helped me tremendously over the last few years, and I hope that you are proud of what you have done. You put out good information and don’t just rip people off – and that’s more than I can say for a lot of people out there in the seduction world.
Brett
BROOK Says:
HEY WHAT GREAT AND INTERESTING VIDEO LESSON LOVE IT AND HOPE U TEACH ME MORE. THANK YOU.
RALPH Says:
sounds good Sinn. Are you ever in the FL area?
tony Says:
this is great stuff im a widower in my 50s –rusty but raring to go
Derrick Says:
So far so good, seen the “attraction” systems which are good for developing your “inner” self. But this is more of an action guide…….let’s see how we progress
Will Says:
Sounds great! I can’t wait to hear more from you.
jay Says:
i’m really curious what you’re about to bring to the table since the mm is my foundation of every pick up…i’m a skeptic i’ll try everything you say to see what the result’s gonna be… if i have results i’ll be a believer but for now your video has quite good arguments, i’m hooked for the moment…
ressau Says:
Great reading. it’s easy and simple and straight to the point. Great points, as well.
Sinn,you are a genius my friend-i enjoyed the video,it was very educational and informing and i look forward to future videos.
mark Says:
just going out to put it into practice byeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
Mutsu Says:
Nice video. I find myself watching alot of free how to attract/get laid things, and I do alot of those things instinctively. I am not afraid of talking to girls, I can get girls to talk about sex. Somehow, it always leads there whether I want it to or not. But then I kinda stop it before I actually do get laid. Like I get the girl going, but then I do nothing about it. Kinda like getting her to almost climax, and then leaving to get something to eat. I know they hunger for sex, I know they want me, I could just tell when they talk to me. Some of them of course, but I just kinda stop cold in my tracks. I guess I either don’t wanna have sex, or I can’t…Idk what it is. LMAO, great stuff though. I sometimes wonder how people don’t know this stuff, if I just know most of this through pondering.
Glenn Says:
OK,so I saw this video and will have sex
Alexandre Says:
man,
thanks…you will help a lot of people.
waiting..for the next pat.
regards,
Alexandre – brazil PUA
Gregor Says:
Sinn,
How do you know if you really have an “issue” or it is just sexual anxiety? I have a gorgeous girlfriend, we’ve had sex a couple of times and when we get things started I usually go down on her and then when she really wants it, I can’t perform, nothin there. She thinks it’s her, when in reality it’s me. If I don’t go down on her and just basically get her turned on enough to have sex then I can do it, but it seems like that’s the only time it works for me… So is it anxiety cuz I do think about it a lot, or is it a real issue that I should seek some medical advice????
Austin Says:
iM SO INTERESTED I CANT WAIT TO LEARN MORE I REALLY LIKE GIRLS ALOT AND ALOT OF SAY THAT IM CUTE SO I JJUST HOPE THAT I CAN GET LAID ALOT MORE WITH YOU GIVING ME THE BEST ADVICE
Ced Says:
Great insight
lex Says:
Yo Sinn mad props. But I have to give it to Mehow because if I wasn’t affiliated with him I would have never seen this material. I have been in this scene for a little over two years and with what I know now your just handing me the short cut. Mad love from Maine-
michael mayhew Says:
In the last month or so I have ordered a couple of dvd’s which has led to scores of e-mail pitches to spend more money and I always end up with the same dissappointing feeling that there was very little substance in comparisson to what was promised.
In this one short vidio you cut through all the BS and gave more usefull practical, easy to get and remember info FREE! Thankyou I will be anciously awaiting your next vidio.
Michael Mayhew
Rich Says:
I did listen to your vidio, and interesting concepts. It is about how you carry yourself as a person, and how confident you are as a man.
juan Says:
hola grasias por tu video tada esta informasion
esta muy interesante espero ber mas y aprender mas gracias por todo
aussiegreg Says:
Am I the only one who noticed that Neil Strauss’s The Game is actually about how the game DOESN’T work? The only way Style got the girl he wanted — the rock chick — was to stop being Style and just be Neil again. To stop playing The Game and just be real.
Great video Jon, but what do you think is the role of authenticity?
Andrew Frymark Says:
Ok, you talk about talking more sexually with a woman, that sounds like a lot of fun, but is there a limit, is there too much sexual talk? Can you turn her off by being too much of a “horn dog”?
Jon
Well done. I have led a lifetime of being the ‘nice guy’. The girls always came to me to cry on my shoulder after someone had broken their heart. I always got ‘why doesn’t he have a girlfriend?’.
Frankly I am sick and tired of it and fed up as well!!
Look forward to more insightful material to take me from nice guy to aware and ‘want to sleep with guy’!
I am in my 50′s so leaving my run a bit late but believe there are still opportunities out there for me.
Thanks again
Trevor Says:
There must be a fool proof way to attract women and to get them into bed quickly.As you say Jon both women and men love and want sex.I know that all women are slightly different but at the core there must be something that triggers and esculates sexual attraction with them.Maybe you are onto it.I hope so and am awaitng all of the further installments
Ey, been in this community 5 years by now. I already have a very very high skill and great experience, got these videos thru email. Just gotta say they are very good, and this is things Ive developed natural as some “techniques” to get laid, the faster you learn it, the better, GREAT stuff Sinn, thx.
Billy Says:
Jon, of all the systems that I’ve seen, this is unequivocally the BEST, and especially…just “tailor made” for me, considering my own personal history, hangups, and wrong ideas that I’ve had through the years. I can hardly wait to start cashin’ in on the dividends. And just wait till you hear the punchline to my whole story……
Viv Says:
Amazing stuff, I have been hit and miss your video helps to narrow down what to keep doing and what to flush, Thank you so very much!!!!
Jon, this is GREAT but if its like every other plan it wont work for me….. You have my attention though!!
K Says:
Really looking foward to exploring more of your stuff Jon. Like many guys, I do not have the abiility go approach endlessly, to go out nightly, or to make my life entirely about pickup. Hearing that the standard models of pickup I’ve been taught are outdated or flat out wrong is kind of like music to my ears cause I , and many guys I know who are into pickup, are so over it. I hope your stuff delivers man and I’ll be looking forward to your emails.
K
Witster Says:
So its Sunday morning and I just decided to see what you had to say. Well, thank you! Jon, I was on a tear in May getting laid 5x in a two week period of time. Guess what…it didn’t last. Besides being overwhelmed and worn out. I lost it. It’s truly the little things that damage a game and yet this is so huge when it comes to closing out women. I have met tons of wanna be PUAs and this aspect of sexual attraction never ever was addressed. Thank you again for the video.
Witster
mike Says:
Hey John,
You have certainly pointed out to me what I have been doing wrong — being the proverbial nice guy.
Now I know why I always ended up in the blind alley.
I am waiting eagerly to learn how to generate sexual attraction. I will be practicing more touching girls and women which I always avoided by not wanting to invade someone space.
Now I know how vital it is to come to sexual subject quickly and why touching is vital.
Thanx a zillion.
“Mike”.
Patrik Says:
After seeing this video, it’s like a light switch above my head. I’ve allways tried to be that guy that first get’s to know the girls and then later on escalating with sexual attraction, which as you know, fails almost 8/10 times. I’m super stoked about your videos and I’m most certainly going to follow/study each and every one. Keep up the good work! and thanks a lot for the videos
// Patrik
Ferdinand Says:
Interesting the way the process of setting up tention and attraction. Although I admit that addressing the topic of sex in a non-threatening way does help break the ice when the opportunity does arrive. Lets see how his works.
El Hombre Says:
Great video Sinn, very realistic and well detailed.
More Power, Keep it Up!
JOHN THIS DEREK G.I JUST GOT FINISH LISTENING TO YOR VIDEO.THE PROBLEM I HAVE IS I DONT NO WHAT TO SAY TO A WOMEN FROM THE BEGINNING I NEED HELP QUICKLY AS POSSIBLE I AM BEHIND IS IT ANYTHING I CAN GET OR HAVE TO SPEED UP THE PROCESS.THE VIDEO WAS EXCITING I WANT TO LEARN MORE KEEP DOIN WHAT U DO BEST.MY EMAIL ADDRESS Is derekg_1402@yahoo.com
Nicolai Says:
interesting… ill read on
Chris Says:
Hey Sinn,
This video helped me to understand my sexual insecurities. Now I can get over them and finally feel comfortable about getting laid by tons of women.
T Says:
I’m excited to learn more. I already saw the second video and I see how your techniques can be fun and effective.
nanny Says:
i like all what you said coz thats thru is realy tought there is alot of thinks that we learn everyday i feel happy that im not the only one whit bad loock or no dont know how to talk to girl
Dave Says:
Very interesting.
Phoenix Says:
Seduction start from the “HELLO!”.
Holy words.
Just 2 weeks ago I’ve got this powerful intuition: girls (and any other people, for that matter) need to “identify” your type of person within the first couple of seconds they know you. According to the type of person you are (or what you communicate you are), they will “upload” a standard set of attitudes, ideas, smal talk and so on.
If they identify you are a “good” guy, they will not want to appear as slut in your eyes. They will not take any risk of broken social rules for you. The talk will be boring, based on common sense and the classic safe topics.
So better be identified as a hot guy, open minded, honey for sex, proud and confidendt. A guy who consider perfectly normal that a girls is honey for sex too, and to get laid the same night.
Remember the “identification” happens in the first couple of seconds she meet you, remember. So better don’t loose the chance to make she play YOUR game from the first moment.
What Sinn seach us here is, basically, how to start your game from the beginning, avoiding looking weird or just scare her.
Cheers up!
Phoenix
Chamelio Says:
Your videos were very insightful. It will certainly help with going to make conversations with girls. It would be nice if you could include something about dealing with approach anxiety and how to overcome it so we can get into that conversation which entails sex and escalation.
Sam Says:
True… great videos. The added part though and you definitely mentioned it. She has to be attracted to you first,that’s the first thing. The second part is the vibe she get from you on your conversation. It’s all about being smooth and confident. I would suggest though don’t call it technique or a system. Women I know don’t like it when guys say they have technique or using a system from the internet to get them in the bed. I would just call it STYLE rather than technique or system. I know technique and system sounds good for marketing purposes…but it don’t go over well with women when they found out it’s a technique or system for you rather than just being yourself. TRUST ME. I know. Again you are on point about letting her know your intent from the git-go. Looking forward for the next video.
How Doo Jon Sinn’ i some how missed the first vid and just view’d it and Amazing and Educating Material as too both sexual and basic’s of life,im just turn’d 48 and your more than young’r than i and Obviously “Although you hitting the nail right on the head and am much intuned for what your shareing outhere and is all so Fantatically Well Stressed to th in to the know ,Oh yah i been working on folllowing others in the net businesses for incomes streams and this is my Point to what im saying here your info is when thought about helpfull in many area’s of life ,C
I am interested for more examples of the field that have been sucssesfully used on pickin up women.
Jonathan Says:
This sounds promising. More concrete details such as how not to come off creepy would help. My conversations tend to be boring so I picked up Bobby Rio’s conversation talks and heard about you from them. My conversation skills have improved, but I’m still a 30 year old guy whose last date was five years ago. I’m going to try the advice here and so if it helps.
Lew Says:
Hey Jon Sinn very informative and great many things are hit dead on! can’t wait for more videos
Hector Says:
great stuff Sinn… thanks for hitting on sexual anxiety and sexual attraction.
Luke Says:
I always have a problem with setting the frames and whenever i try it leads to me and her walking away angry or annoyed.
What i do is i state/set the frame
i would have been talking for her for about a minute and then i say
“i don’t know if your cute enough for me”
her: “huh what do u mean?”
me: “your completely hitting on me”
her: “no, i’m not”
me: “yes, you are”
and so on for quite a while and we would both eventually leave
what do i do to prevent this but still set the frame?
Gregory Says:
Alotta what you said made sense. A few times I found myself looking back at times when I met a girl and had sex with her and realized what it was I did that got her aroused or horny. I’m merely interested in seeing how you can get other guys laid. I’m a skeptic but also open-minded. I’m def’ly gonna use your methods and see what happens. I’m 35 and single and have not had many girlfriends. My sexual partners are few and far between, however when I do get laid, it’s with a very attractive girl so I wanna see if I can make this happen more often rather than waiting months and months. Thanks for helping all of us out dude. That’s really cool of you.
GTI Says:
sounds great. please provide sentence-based examples for each process so anyone can understand better…
Hey there, great and interesting stuff. I’ve just stepped into the PuA-Community a half year ago by reading the books you’ve mentioned in your video, like the one from Mystery and Style. And I was thinking that their way is the only way. Now I’m glad to find out, that you’ve created some shortcuts. I was afraid, I would have to learn some magic tricks and buy a pink and shiny Jacket or something like that. So thanks for making me save a lot of money and a lot more of time.
Greetings from Good Ol’ Germany
John Says:
AWesome video! I haqd no idea that I have been doing all the wrong things!
Ben Says:
I think it’s so cool dude, well, I’ve read the game twice and have purchased a few ebooks from David D and I do feel and am thankful for that there are some way cool guys out there who actually care about other guys and how they might be suffering because of the way society teaches us that it’s wrong but it’s not wrong whatsoever! We are all meant to be sexual ppl. We’ve all been programmed to act like wusses instead’a real men! Kinda sad how it would take bout an arm and a leg and months of anticipation (to save your pennies for those of us who are poor guys) .. I jus wanted to say that the detail you went into was very intense. I at first thought you were gonna jus get us interested and then WHAM! haha, ‘credit card’. But no dude, that was way cool. I would definitely recommend you to any of my friends, Sinn! Peace man.
After lisstening to your vido, I conclude: If put attention and follow the advice. You will became a real Don Juan. The MENkind is grateful to you. Keep on teaching, Master…. Gerry.
mhood1 Says:
Sinn Thanks for the information. You have pointed out a lot of key point here that am going to use, and some bad habits that need corrected. Question what are some good ways to get one girl in a group to leave the group to talk? Question 2- some girls get clingy fast what do you tell them to keep things good / and understood that I like them and want to spend time with them but not a full time girlfriend?
Chris Says:
I am impressed , really cool material
mwr Says:
also john, i live in australia so the time diff may not make it possible for me to participate in the seminar.
so is there a product being released that encapsulates everything we need to know.
Richard Says:
I found it very informative. I think I can use it to boost my game!
Paul Says:
Sinn,
This is it !! I value and am looking for a LTR but want to KNOW as many woman as possible before I settle down with a girl. This stuff is unlocking my loving nature
Cullen Says:
I like it. It’s simple, and to the point. We’re not in it for validation or mind games, we’re in it to get laid. This alone sets it apart from most other pick-up techniques. I’m looking forward to the seminar.
shuggs Says:
I felt the video spend too much time on what not to do..insightful as it was it needs more examples and getting to the point a bit quicker would help alot.
david Says:
cool man…kinda basic stuff with a couple of revelations. but a back to basics theme seems fitting for what you’re getting accomplished out there. keep up the good stuff man and thanks again for what you do!!!!
Ara Says:
Fantastic stuff,looking forward to hear the continuation.Thank you.
This is great stuff to know. Thanks. But I do have a question, lets say, presently, I can’t take many girls on dates due to financial hardship, would that interfere in me getting lucky with these girls?
Petko Says:
As always great stuff:)..really appreciate your work Jon!!!
Andrew Says:
Great stuff, thanks. i would love some examples of how you verbally turn girls on, such as how you switch the conversation to sex.
Mike Says:
Great start to a few seduction training videos it seems.
Cant stop watching now.
Just got to see the other videos.
Brian Says:
I will bed on a plane during the conference call, but would really appreciate access to the call. Will there be a link to a replay? Please. Thank-you.
Gambit Says:
My mind exploded when you started talking about the mystery method being shit….great stuff tho ill see where this is going
Conquistador Says:
Refreshing to hear about the arousal… Good stuff Jon… Looking forward to the seminar and the continued roadmap.
hi jon just liistened too yourteleseminar but cannot get on youe site to purshase ,,,,,,??? thanks ron borrow
Rick Says:
The stuff being talked about is totally different from what I have learned. Before this video I thought that conversations with women were non-sexual, get to know you, I’m not a horn dog situation. Did not know I was shooting myself in the foot by not talking about sex. However, I always thought something was missing from my dialogue. How do I bring up sex in a non-threatening way.
Yan Says:
A lot of what you say is like the LS Interview on Sexual Escalation, there are however Compliance Thresholds in this as well as any escalation, for example Kino. Using a sexual filter may be a way forward?
A lot of problems with rationalising with a girl are based around logistics and the fact that she has a boyfriend, this is LARGELY underestimated in the community.
I hope this reasonably priced, I dont live in America, I get around $8,600 per year in camparison.
shahroze Says:
This is wonderful video.THE PROMBLEM IS THAT I DONOT KNOW HOW TO TALK TO GIRLS .HOW TO START CONSVERATION .
THERE MUST BE ONE VIDEO RELEATED TO IT WHICH WII HELP ME AND OTHER GUYS THANKS
To be honest with you, I think this is one of the most important things to do: Sexual Attraction.
I’ve read almost every material out there and been partying for three years every weekend non stop, so I do have some kind of idea on what works and what doesn’t.
Sexual Attraction is definitely the most important thing and I’ve seen guys who get laid just because of it and have no idea about Pickup. They are just normal guys who had these things installed in them.
Thanks for the video mate! Looking forward to hearing more of this and putting it into practise IMMEDIATELY! It’s what I’ve been missing all these years!!
Cheers from Helsinki – Finland
Danny P Says:
I did learn alot bout this video like talking to a girl in the first 25minutes but i was thinking to myself, if i meet a girl in the streets but need to keep the convo short just to get her number, do i wait to talk about it after i get the number?
Sinn: good job in putting that kind of info out there for all of us guys
who want to learn and need to know how to start out. I have and can
do good with women but, what you teach can’t hurt. In fact it will
make us better men to reasure us that we can do it with the women we
want to. My question is what if you have a realationship with some-
one but, you want more can it work for both of them to use for the
one you are with and those you want to get! Im here to tell you it
does. I have the best of both worlds thanks to me and people like
you thanks.
Cisko Says:
I lost my phone and missed the call. Is there somewhere I can listen to a recording? You’ve got rock solid killer game Sinn! Don’t know where I’d be without you.
Carlo Muchachos Says:
Hi Sinn,I liked your Audio record,I recegniced a lot of your techniques but do not practice these anymore because I am a bad artist,you right it is hard to start a conversation without topic,well the point is the action to go out there and practice,or dealing with that shitty feeling of rejection that takes your courage.I start in the very basement if I start,I dont know I will see.
D Says:
Thanks for this man, I like how you take a step back from everything and say “what’s really going on here.”
You mentioned everything I need to get my game going in the right direction as if you were inside my head reading my thoughts. The next step is to get it out of my head and turn it into to real world results.
Been at this a long time from Ross Jefferies to mystery to neil to david D..You are right on ..most stuff does not work …you have to get sexual early on..Your future tips will be appreciated..to jump start action with a real world simple plan that you seem to have..very interested in future enlightedment…Thanks
Jeremy Says:
Hey, Honeslty! I would be happy, on knowing how to make women approach me, & then hit the “sexual attraction button” & have sex with her the same day..Im already good at the whole “cocky funny” technique, & maintaining eye contact during conversations, but lately I feel like I kind of fell off, & really would like to have sex alot more often than I currently do, & with women I choose, not have to settle for. This is kinda sad, but in the last 6 months I have only slept with 1 girl, & it really sux going out on the weekends, knowing I might have to spend the night alone again.
Mike Says:
Great video, very helpful. I’m looking forward to the next video. My problem is leading the conversation to sexual level. I can approach and open just about any girl, but my results aren’t as high as I want them to be. I want to close interactions that lead to more and more sex, which is my goal. So I want to see what the next video has in store and hopefully has the steps to get me where I would really love to be.
Thanks.
mike Says:
John you have made some good comments, I have a few problem attracting the women i realy like those that are ok I have no problem with and ofcourse I noted that my problem was that I allow the nice one to get in the friend zone as i treat them like queen and the others like shit. Years ago I said to myself that this is wierd but I still am doing the same today. once it someone i really like i turn into and 13 year kid.
Peter Says:
Probably one of the best presentations I have heard. Well done.
Brian Says:
Great stuff Sinn. Picked up a lot of tips from your video. Look forward to next one. Thanks !!
Mike Says:
Hey Jon,
Thanks for doing all the leg work for all of us, literally. Lol,…
Was reading and applying Dave DeAngelo’s material a while back. Last Sum-mer met this woman, we dated all summer it seemed. She owns her own Hair Sa-lon (an is a nine+). We hit it off an it was very good. She invited me to her Mom and Dad’s cook-out an everythihng was going well. And, then she flipped out on me. She told me she needed some space, as she just lost her only employee, ok, so we kept seeing each other, then met other people. Before this, she told me I was a total package. And, it seemed things were going fine. She was starting to fall for me. Then she flipped out saying she was married to her HS Sweet-Heart an has only been divorced for one (1) year (I’m divorced 5+ yrs now). She wasn’t ready for me. She had to work full time for a couple of months. So, we took a break so she could get her business in order and still were seeing each other, on occassion, when we each met someone else. Would like to get that one back and keep her happy. Now, we’re seeing other people. What can I do to get her back. Plus my current room-mate (a guy) has a big mouth. He says he doesn’t want to lie for me. So, if I’m in the bedroom with a woman and another girl calls he says I’m busy? So, the other girl starts wondering. Why not say I’m out? That’s what I told him to say. It’s hard to have more than one with a jeal-ous room mate. Have to keep it on the DL some how. I know, get a new room-mate. Lol,… It would be good to see her again and have her over my place, but, my room mates a,… Thanks Jon,…
It was good to hear what you had to tell us.
I am interested in what you will teach us. All my life, I have always able to have sex with a woman with whom I wanted to take me to bed.
I am self-confident and have a high degree of self-esteem. I always was confident that however long it took me to get in bed with a woman I wanted
was fine. I was never in a hurry. I never masturbated (tried it several times) but didn’t succeed and so I was patient and always found an attrractive women who helped me get satisfied.
I will watch your future sessions with interest.
Matt
Michael F Says:
Very nice video. Open my eyes to this stuff I just got divorce after 23 years of marrige. Can wait for more info.
I’m a 64 yr. old man whose wife died last year. I don’t want to spend the rest of my life alone and want to know if your information works for us older widowers too. Thank You, Bart
Very Interesting anxious to next part. Good start.
SilentSolo Says:
Great Video, i had read through and looked at a lot of those other sites and programs you mentioned, and had given up on them. They were all about going to bars and clubs, and I am not really that type of person. I don’t drink or dance, so I meet women elsewhere, your program sounds like it would be more beneficial to me in my natural environment, which is my work, I meet a ton of women at work, just need to focus my efforts better with them.
Andrew Says:
Seems to confirm what I suspected all along – things like getting a phone number are nothing, it’s the sexual part that’s the real sticking point.
Will continue to watch with interest.
Andrew ^_^
Todd Imbach Says:
hello john it was a breath of fresh air to hear the truth about initiating sexual talk and attraction ….i am the guy in the friend list and I need to learn to get laid more keep it coming
thanks
Michael Says:
Exelent video,an eye opener,good teaching for the guy like me love women more than food.Like to learn more ,great teaching.
Thank you.
Ardee Says:
Thanks for the upfront information. Looking forward to more information. Have never been good at this area, so anything you say will be helpful.
Robert Says:
Valuable information I will see how it works in the next few days. Divorced after 30 years of being with the same woman since 14 this should prove to be very interesting. Thanks Robert
Biff Says:
You, my man, are onto something. You are 100% correct that all the info out there is centered upon proving yourself to the girl, while trying to pretend you think you are the prize.
It’s disingenuous. And very few guys are able to pull it off consistently.
In order to get laid, you do have to prove yourself to the girl. But you must prove yourself sexually. It’s really very simple. You must prove to the girl you can arouse her in a way that breaks through her own barriers, issues, and hang-ups.
Women want sex as much as we do, probably much more. But they also take much more of a risk by engaging in sex than we do. That’s why we generally are the ones that have to figure out how to make it happen.
You are right. From ‘Hello’ you have to get yourself in to the ‘Possible Sexual Partner’ category in her mind. Every minute you spend in any other category is going to cost you at least 10 minutes more effort getting out of the category she’s placed you in.
Once you’re in the right category, all that’s left to do is show your stuff. And if you do it right, she’ll show hers…
Wily Says:
Very useful reminder video, most of which I already knew but reminders can be
important. What blows me away is when you have the girl aroused and then
she suddenly turns off, even though you are doing everything right (no, I don’t have a strange body odor or bad breath!). You slow it down, then pick it up,
but it doesn’t resume the right way.
Thanks,
Wily
Jon Mc Says:
Just wanted to say thank you for this video im looking forward to much more i’ve never heard anyone speak abot sexual anxiety and thats hugh.
Hugh Says:
Dear John,
This is good stuff! I am married and don’t want to hurt wife but I am craving more naughty sex. Please help!
Just turned 57 been out of game for sometime now.Never was much of a player before.now I am all bt myself and not sure how to play the game any more.Your video helped some can”t wait to hear more.
justdo.1010 Says:
I’m getting to bed 2 different women each week, so I’m happy.
It’s true what you say about bring up sex. You must talk about it, 100%
Touching women in the way that you explain is a must…100%
Dam it’s like listening to a little voice in the back of my mind. WOW you are the real deal. You guys need to listen to this information, 100%, because it is true about women.
I can remember meeting this girl in a pub and leaving after 10 minutes. next going from pup to pup. Then about 3 hours later, I found myself fucking her in someone’s front garden. lol We had to do a runner!
Fr John Says:
Good so far John. 80 yrs old and still getting it on. My experience/s prove you right in most of what you’ve offered so far. look forward to your next offering.
Fr John
I really appreciate what you are doing.It is like what you said in the video I already knew,but needed to here.I look forward to more of your great work.
hope this works as well as you make it sound, I was recently dumped by a girlfriend of 2 years and am still going through a lot of pain, thanks – give me more, please.
Raul Says:
Offhand, I’d say that you come across in a different way than most pick-up gurus I’ve come across, & I’m really looking forward to the next installment. I also like the fact you’re not going for my wallet right away–that is, hitting me with a sales pitch.
thanks for sharing that it is ok to show interest for a woman I am attracted to (as long as am solid within) also thanks for sharing that the most important thing to get laid is to feel sexualy confident when I am with her… nothing to be ashamed of
Evolver Says:
My very first time decide to check you out. Man, i have to admit i’m looking forward to your next vid,bro. i like the part about your 46 yrs old Asian dude picking up a 23 yrs old chick? My new year resolution is to get laid every week and i hope your lessons are gonna help me out.
Keep up the good work!
God Bless!
EVO
Chris Says:
Interesting video. I’m 43 and hearing about how this 46 year old guy picked
up 23 year old girl gave me some hope that I could date girls in their early 20′s without guilt. What motivated me to start learning this stuff is I had a secret crush on a girl who was 22, and I had no earthly idea on what to do. I intially felt a little guilty until I read ‘The Game’ and heard about how Mystery slept with a 19 year old girl when he was 45. That’s when I started asking myself this question, “What Mystery would do if he was in my situation.”
johnny Says:
hello John your teachings about laying down and sexual attraction looks amazing..well i have one question all you talked about is when the interaction happens face to face but how about when you meet a woman in a dating site will this work..i mean do we have to apply it right from the word go as you said seduction starts from the hello??? when you and woman are interacting trough emails or phone and who have never seen each other physically before or is it better to wait till we meet face to face and then bring sex on the table until then just create verbal sexual attraction trough emails and phone calls will it work that way???
well your ideas and teachings in this area here could be greatly helpful because these days many guys are using dating sites to meet a woman.
I have the seduction part about women and sex well perfected I’m actually good at sex just not confident enough that my penis is to her liking.My problem is sexual anxiety, just not able to stick to the general subject or interact physically with her leading up to the bed room. I want to be sure that when i feel that she wants to be touch , and that she wants to be kissed that she really wants those things and it’s not just me lusting her and she not lusting me.Keep dropping this good stuff and my confidence and attitude about woman will esculate and may God shine down his light on me.
Ra Says:
T^he information was refreshing and thought provoking.
It should work.
Andy Hopper Says:
Hi Jon,
This is highly intriguing, fascinating and powerful stuff. I have a specific woman in mind to escalate with so am looking to improve my ‘game’ to that end. Knowledge is power and confidence in your game are both essential – and that is what I see your system doing – hopefully anyway.
Looking forward to the next one.
Warm regards
Andy H
davehintexas Says:
I’m 58 years old, have never been married, and haven’t even had a steady girlfriend in over 25 years. In addition, I’m among the many guys who were brought up to believe that sex,especially before marriage, is somehow dirty and wrong. As a result, I have a lot of anxiety, sexual and otherwise, when it comes to interacting with women I’m attracted to. jon’s first video left me feeling that such reactions are common and quite normal. I’ll definitely be back for vodeo #2 so I can learn even more.
Great stuff ! You really simplify things!I have used some of this in the past when younger,and actively dating,before settling down and having a family! Now Im in my 50s have been raising my 4 kids on my own for 11yrs.and am now getting back into dating! I used to get laid a lot when young and once took 3 women home at seperate times during one night! I got laid with all 3 before midnight! My ex girlfriends father was renting a room from me at the time! He seen me bring the women home at seperate times during the night,and take them to my bedroom! When he seen me come in with the third one he took me aside a said”son I hope you are using protection” then grinned a big smile! Now I find it very hard to get back into meeting when going out but meet a lot on the comuter sites ! I still talk sex to them in a joking way and have met a few for coffee and been laid twice this way ! But this is over a 1 year period! Im feeling a little intimidated because of age and not being in the best shape now days,but the desire is alive and well!lol So I guess I could use some pointers on getting laid more offten at my age and some confidence building! I know what you say works!—Thanks Jon…..Mike.
Bocaccio Says:
Jon,
I never had problems meeting women, I am handsome and agressive. But You taught me to focus on my ultimate goal, the only goal, quickly.
Thank You.
Bocaccio
Ironstone Says:
The video was very interesting – and I understand some of the techniques. However, applying them and listening to them are two different things. The video could use more interactive with women – not just talking and a little power-point.
jacob Says:
this is great stuff, awesome!this will help guys who are innocent or lack the knowledge or are naive about women get the confidence and skills and know how to be successfull with women.
braddddd Says:
Just being honest::: i’ve been into porn way too much and shut down the reality aspect of sex. it’s been a couple years since i’ve played with a girl and hope to unleash in 2011.
I totally agree with what you said and hope you get to the point eventually. it is kinda vague to leave it as saying you have to be sexual right off the bat. that is good to know but you haven’t given us too much. however, i do appreciate everything and i am may not be a worthy critic whatsoever.
i would like to add that humor goes a long way as long as you don’t over do it and are honestly funny. looks are important no matter what, girls can be more picky that us guys.
Dear John,
Great video, thanks. I seem to be able to strike up conversations with women on a regular basis with little difficulty but I’ve begun to realize it’s because I usually present myself in a non sexual way, a man with no ‘intent’. I’m pretty fed up with this way of communicating now as I’m just beating around the bush due to lack of confidence, fearing I’ll scare the woman away or of being rejected ! I’m hearing you loud and clear though so keep it coming.
jacayl Says:
jone thank you for this lessons I find it important but if you add some example like how can i bring up sexual conversation where to start it would really be great
thank you very much
Hey, John, I think you hit it right on the head about women’s sexuality. And you are right, getting her aroused is the number one route to getting it on with her.
I’m 60 (going on 19) and have a strong preference for very young, very hot women. While some women will write you off based on age alone, there are plenty that appreciate the experience and maturity and confidence of an older, attractive man (the latter factor being one I strive to maintain). And those are the ones I aim for. If they feel the arousal you’re in and of they don’t you can kiss it off. And you are so right, that it must start right from the beginning.
Looking forward to seeing your future installments and gleaning your knowledge.
Ramdaawg Says:
Hi, I should mention that you are really generous. Other PUAs would be trying to mint money with these videos and explanations. looking forward to the remaining tutorials, and will implement what has been taught today.
Jim Says:
Hi John. Very good video. Thanks for taking the time to make it. A question: what do you think should be the balance or ratio between trying to meet women online and trying to meet them in face-to-face interactions out in the community? Should it be 50/50, 60/40, 80/20 or what? Thanks so much!
Hey John,
I’ve always doupted myself about talking about sex with women, and often wait for them to bring up the subject first. However, your video makes a lot of sence, i.e. you’re not going to have sex with a girl if you don’t talk about it with her. LOL! Initiating this sex talk by joking about sex is another mind-blower. I’ll be eagerly waiting for your next video. Till then ‘Getting laid is a good thing!
PS Says:
You make some excellent points. At first, I was apprehensive because of the focus on getting laid. I do want to get laid but I don’t want to come off as a creep or pervert. I need to work on overcoming years of misinformation. When you talk about same night lays, it sounds scary because I am not used to getting action that fast. I don’t want to be accused of coming on too strong although a softer approach doesn’t always work, either.
George Horning Says:
Very good video it does leave me wondering where i go from here. I look forward to learning more and getting laid more.
Hey jon, this approach concept you have is undoubtedly the most unique and sincere technique I have come across in a long time! It’s straight and to the point. It describes everyday encounters that men have with accuracy and realism. You hit the nail on the head my friend.
Anil Govvd Says:
Fantastic, Keep the good work. The point is I am Indian and we have a different set of rules applied to sex and dating. The points you have discussed has to be modified according to the Indian context to be fruitful here. The basics I feel are universal. Let me try with your ideas in mind
Thank You
james haines Says:
thought this whole piece of information was useful and helpful! After reading, it made me think how easy this shit is you know! I use to think attraction building was hard but now after listening, its like wow, that’s it?
And most of these things, I already posess, so now its time to review, apply this 2 the real world and like how my people say “GET IT IN”! thanks
Step Says:
i’m tired to be just a friend. I’m starting to spend time with a hot girl who i think is attracted to me, and i dont want her to get bored as the other ones i had spent time with. Man I’m so excited because everything you said appears to the great magic trick, it all makes sense!
looking forward for your next vid
NIGEL Says:
GREAT STUFF!I AM LOOKING FORWARD TO SEE MORE
Geramie Says:
Great video I already do some of the things you were talking about as far as escalating but I could always learn more right now I’m getting about two girls a month in my bed I’d like to increase that to at least double. I’ll stay tuned!
I found that everything you said makes a lot of sense. I’m taking some college classes and there are so many hot girls that always smile at me and talk to me which is great, but I am lost as to how to a really be able to talk to these girls in a way that will build the sexual tension you’re talking about. Youi have some grat advice that you’ve given me so far that I know I will be able to use! Thanks a ton man, and I’m definitely going to be keeping up on your stuff
mohammed Says:
you know , all puas talk about eachother , each one says that the other guy’s system sucks , how would i know whats the best system?
Very nice but, If you could give some exact verbal details on what you actually say to get a womans attention, I think it would be a great foundation to start with. Like the first 2 mins of what you actually use youself.
Thankx, Richie
Jerry Says:
It was wonderful information.I purchased Natural seduction and I thought it was wonderful idea not act like a dancing Monkey.This stuff really works after your learned basic skills like body language etc.Unfortunately,I learned great concept but I did not see some model presentation from Sinn.People more expect some simplified technique in your face.Sinn did not take advantage of DVDs format.
His concept is well structured and easy to understand but if you have no boot camp experience or you have not seen how you use tonality and body language beginners feels left behind.Sinn has whole wonderful skill sets and Many people see him on Mehow infield stuff,If infield is difficult technically,he could at least demonstrate his simplified techniques on controlled situation following by his structured concept.
For intermediate or more,Sinn’s natural attraction is break through experience for them for beginner.He should have show some example.
This seduction road map presentation was wonderful but if this is DVDs,he should show some examples not afraid creating dancing monkey,they don’t do that they want some example.they want some picture of what they are doing.
this is my questions plus If this one shows exmaples,it must buy!
Jerry Says:
Hi Jon,
It’s really good presentation and everybody wants to know how much is this program?I would like to buy this.If you show demonstrations on DVDs.I know it’s controlled environment but beginners need concrete pictures.
Fat-Albert Says:
Brilliant video Sinn,
Its right on and to the point. It clearly defines where a lot of us are really at in terms of our success with women (consistenly that is) that we’re really not expressing our sexuality – based on our fears and sexual anxiety in its many forms. I’m out there in the game approaching, building comfort, etc BUT proof is in the results. I’m looking forward to getting this handled and putting it into action.
All the best
Nice to see this information being brought forward. It’s something I’ve always gone into with my mentored students, but not something I’ve really elaborated on in video/print material (at least into the depth it sounds like you’re taking it). I look forward to the other videos!
Troy Says:
Thanks for the video, something hit me like a train whilst I was watching it! For a while now I’ve been bombing out with women despite being able to engage them quickly and easily in conversation. Thanks to your video I now know my problem. I don’t know if I can fix it but at least I now know what it is. Thanks.
Francis Says:
Great stuff! looking forward to see the next videos!
i want to know what those 4 steps are!!!!! i guess this video is just an introduction to whats gonna be shown on the net few videos!! actually i was a bit impressed with this guy talking!!!! he said things that i heard and read before that were split in different articles, and he has put them together. as far as here i have not much to say about it, i m just a bit curiouse to see what comes next!!!! lets hope it is good stuff and does not let me down like every time i get on the internet searching for something like this!!!
Gaurav Says:
Hi Jon,
You’ve given out some aggressive tips. I too believe that the first choice should always be a bit aggressive.
Thanks Jon.
Great stuff. Actually I had girlfriends. As soon as I am sexual with women I’m confident and everything is okay. Opening is better than 3 years ago and getting phone numbers pretty easy. The main sticking point I have is to escalate physically and verbally. In my childhood I was taught to death that having sex with women is bad. That a boy should not touch a girl and sex before marriage is not good blablabla… Sometimes I feel this is still holding me back on a subconscious level even though I know this is all bullshit. Any suggestions for breakthrough?
Cheers Juan
Marathonman Says:
This is great for anyone not starting from ground zero!
Marathonman
Matt Says:
Kudos Sinn! It’s about time that someone left the “mamby pamby” world when dealing with women. Being direct is where it’s at! Putting up with “brain damage” due to “daddy issues” is the worst tact guys can “wade in”. Getting to the point of the “why” we even hang around is SO refreshing. I can speak for having been young and foolish and attempting to appease every little non-sensicle thought that comes around. If you’re not grabbing for the brass ring; someone else surely will be and then you’ll be experiencing that moment of clarity that comes from being a chump and wondering “why” she left you for someone else. Looking forward to the next video and no nonsense approach to getting what you want most out of life; satisfying yours and her sexual desire…without it; you have a dying relationship!
Al Says:
Thanks a lot man. This is really a science. I’m impressed with this shit. You’re so right about the mood and arousal. Girls will do almost anyone when their aroused enough and feel comfortable. It’d be great if you could talk more about this.
Kaz Says:
Yo, i’m really excited for the next part of the video. The main issue i want to make sure i have resolved for good is to behold to Start and Hold a fun/sexual conversation. Approaching a girl is no problem, just that my biggest fear is to fall into “interview mode” if i can easily start & hold a conversation anywhere, anytime. I’d probably have no other problem with getting laid. I’m not scared to talk to a girl, i’m not scared to get sexual. Just the fact that i don’t know where to start the conversation now & then.
Thanks in advance
Kaz
Al Says:
Also, it’d be great if you could talk about how to not be creepy about being sexual; and I mean how to be sexual right off the bat and continue a conversation from a simple hello into talking about sexual things and making a connection.
Dawson Says:
Awesome. This is how it should be; stripping away the bullshit that doesn’t get you either A- laid, B- A girlfriend that your actually attracted to or C- both.
Essentials is what I want, not beleifs, not left brain strategies created by guys and designed to appeal to guys.
Nuts and Bolts
Cheers Jon
Lorenzo Says:
I like that you say seduction starts at hello. I knew long ago that it was easier to seduce if I was open about my intentions. The other thing that sounds very useful is writing down the process from saying “hi” to her, to her saying “fuck me now.” I will do that now, after I take my kids home to their mom’s house.
Laurent Says:
Hey Jon,
I’m really interested in the Roadmap, but how do I get a hold of it?
mike Says:
cool stuff. looking forward to seeing the next vid.
ivan Says:
interesting approach. different from annything else, but i think that is right stuff.
Mike Says:
Thanks Jon for the info pretty cool stuff,finly someone that wants to help lookin foward to your next video,thanks again man!
TJ Says:
Great stuff! I believe this will help me greatly. Can’t wait to see what is in the next videos.
Dino Says:
Hey, it was really refreshing to hear someone say out loud what I’ve been thinking about.I’ve been in this “community” for about 10 months, and have been going through a lot of stuff and transformations, one of em was the feeling like all this is really has to be a lot simpler than what was the mainstream taught from my own experience and watching naturals around me.I guess the bottom line is, I want to be able to have sex consistently with girls I find really attractive without having to go the scenic route if you know what I mean and do it directly, how can I possibly do that in just 4 steps?Also how the hell do you keep the conversation sexual, I did it twice before with girls I really found attractive, but after my last breakup it feels like I got retarded, I just want to be able to do that every time, not just when I stop thinking due to extreme horniness in fluke cases?
D. Says:
After applying just a few principles my interactions with women have definitely changed for the better. I can see now consistent responses from women when it is done right.
You are an amazing teacher. I can now see where I made mistakes as I look back on all the beautifull women who wanted to have sex with me but some of the pieces of expressing sexuality correctly were not there yet.
My 2011 will be amazing thanx to you. So let’s get started with the program.
Chris Says:
I’m interested in seeing if your roadmap is beneficial for older men to pull much younger women. Not really interested in the gf/bf thing just want several “go to girls”. Don’t want to have to go through all the BS of establishing value and having to continually prove myself to get the girl in bed. Looking forward to hearing more.
Ed Says:
Your video explained ALOT of what has worked and why. Now I just got to get her back. Thanks.
David Says:
Hey John,
My natural senses indicate you are right on the money. I have a few comments to make about the video. I am not sure what is in store in the next videos, but I do know lots of guys have approach anxiety. How are they going to apply your lessons if they can’t work up the courage to approach the girl to begin with? I get those feelings if the girl is extra attractive, but I still approach anyway. Some just find it very hard to do.
Another observation I find, well, humorous, but sad as well. All the money charged for those past Mystery boot camps. You know, the ones that we’re pretty darn expencive? I’m glad I didn’t do them finding out they are a waste of time. Would much rather get down to brass.
Thanks for what you are doing for the community.
Sol Says:
Thanks for the redirection as I was reading up on the other material thats out there I always wondered why it felt like something was missing. I want to learn more on how to verbally arouse as well as physical.
Ricky Stevanno Says:
it’s cool stuff…good idea, good idea i need to try it..but is is different culture could lead to different result? i life in a such a traditional culture in Indonesia, any ideas?
Jeremy Says:
Hi there,
I’m a 24 year old guy from europe.
This video was pretty interesting, but as I see it some of us may want to speed up things quickly =)
I must say The Mistery Method is nice but can be difficult to follow.
Alot of things and ways should be easier and really effective!
This is just a little something I had in mind =)
Hope its useful =)
Richard Says:
I think it will work really good for me. I have always been a little timid talking with women, and run out of things to talk about with them early, and never really brought up the subject of sex with any of them so quickly either. Thanks for the road map for getting myself past the friend zone area!!!
mackafc Says:
Sexual anxiety is a big problem many guys are unaware holds them back from approaching from what ive seen in a few wings.I believe in calibrating the type of girl and play the sexual escalation on top of that to hit the nail on the head as some girls are looking for preferred pre-sex interactions depending on their personality type: fun,connection,random,female player,professional etc..
Cool vid Jon always new awesome stuff!
Xavier Says:
great video!
one question: i already have this sexual/teasing relationship with many women. however, this doesn’t end up in sex. should i push harder? or maybe they think i’m “joking”, which i am partially. suggestions?
Carlos Says:
I found the entire video quite informative. I have a question, what if flat out broke and unemployed and I want to get women to bed, should I aim low like 6 & 7 or aim high 9 & 10′s?
Cliff Feightner Says:
The best, common sense advice I’ve heard!
Good job!
tantobee Says:
I just cant get a woman to like me all I`ve tried
Tim Says:
First off i would like to thank Mr. Sinn for making this video, it seemed like this was made exactly for me, espescially with all the talk about sexual anxiety. You talked about building attraction with women and filtering it with sexual attraction if i am not mistaken. What way do you think is the best way for going about that?
Robert Says:
I found this quite interesting would like to hear more
mat kopele Says:
great content as always jonn. i am relatively new to game after coming out of a long term relationship and being awful with women in my youth. i find you’re one of the few pu artists who’s actually a normal guy. i’m not into silly pua lingo, peacocking and routines.
Leroy Says:
Nice work Jon. Love the cerebral approach. Thanks.
Brian Says:
Jon–Really great info, in general. Here’s my conundrum about what you discuss. To me anyway, any girl who agrees to get laid on the first date or even the 2nd, is basically a slut and low class, so while I appreciate learning how to expidite this process, doesn’t getting laid with a quality woman take a little time? Or am I just missing the boat, so to speak? No offense to Mystery, but just the look of him is a major turn off with all his insane piercings, hat, etc. Keep up the good work. “Every day without getting laid is a tragedy” that my friend made up–but true. Hence, you are helping people avoid tragedy:) Brian
I went through the Mystery method with little success. This makes a lot more sense.
jak Says:
Great Stuff…
Can’t wait for tomorrow…
Mario Says:
Hey there John. I really liked this video. To me, it is the most direct way of imparting the information to us guys who really need it. Everything you’ve said so far is hard hitting and true and I needed to hear it the way you put it out there. I’m not much for alot of reading, so this video is exactly what the doctor ordered. Thanks alot bro… Looking forward to your next video.
issy Says:
wow! nice work jonh. u are a great guy with great stuffs. I hav actually used your “using relationship ladders ” techniq couple of times in the past without knowing it . And it was rlly successful those times. pls jonh keep up the gud work cuz u ar helping a lot of guys out there. nd I cant wait to get those materials nd videos that ar yet to come. just keep doing gud john ur the BOMB!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
charley Says:
i liked what Jon is saying here, it makes sense and looks more natural, simpler, logical and effetive than other techniques i’ve seen but not tried… I feel this would give me the results i’d ike in attracting women!
Nice one Jon, thanks
Nice talk Jon.
I have had women all my life and my relationships last between 1-2 to 7-8 years. Now I am stuck with a girl 41 years younger than me ( I am 66) who thinks she is a princess and does not lift a finger to do anything at all. She goes to party every night. She is born in the sign Virgo and pretends to herself to be a virgin. Because of her teasing long legs I did a prayer to compel her to be mine, and she gives sex on average 3x a month, while I want more. I will listen to your next tapes to see how to arouse her more. One peculiar thing is that I only like young girls and 6 relationships all started with a 19 year old, the last one too.
Thanks for helping,
you may reply to me to learn more about my sexual encounters.
great stuff…really and works all the time just because all you say makes
a lot of sense…period
Frank
Hendrik Says:
Hi,
the four part seduction technique is awesome, the first ‘Hello’ to having sex with women is just fantastic, how ever I’ve read some where about the different types of women and the age factor.
At my age I love the hot bodies of younger women but they dont have much up stairs and bore me with their stupidness and the older ones are just too damm cocky and smart arsed, they start to go weird on me.
Oh, and they are great liars, I suppose thats where I pull the plug most times, I cant get over believing any thing these women tell me or say.
Qualifying women and finding the right girl for myself is becomming harder and harder to find, sure their hot, but looks are’nt every thing, but I dont want to end up with a dog either.
I’ve had girls enough to bring back to my place, but in the end I did’nt want to to the dirty on them because I did’nt think they deserved my sexual attention, I did’nt feel like kissing them or going down on them or any forplay..nothing. Sometimes I think a root is a root, but I dont want to have that feeling of uglyness drooped around me.
I know I have the skills and with your help, other guys like me, surely will get the results we require.
Cheers, have a fun day.
Hendrik
Sydney Aust.
Chad Says:
“James Woods! …catch the frizbee in your mouth!!”
…frizbee bounces out of James Woods’ mouth…
“What’s my motivation Peter?”
Thanx for the “for instance,” insights! Often for online “FREE,” means anticipation, building to sell …Sin is delivering for free, and thus far is filling this dry sponge.
1000 thanx Sin, I will be in your debt if it helps me at ALL
Chad
Scott W Says:
I studied Mystery and attended a bootcamp in which Style was signing “The Game” right after it was published. I found their insights and suggestions invaluable, so I don’t agree that the method is flat out incorrect.
The biggest flaws were the linear approach to a species — women — who are anything but linear and applying this approach to all women, as if a 23-year-old club girl is the same as a 32-year-old professional single mother.
That said, I found your video exciting and revelatory, and I sense that you may be making a quantum leap from the foundation that the PUA pioneers laid. I agree that some instructors in the field focus too much on flirting and getting attention from women, rather than getting sexual.
Lstely I’ve been drawn to teachings that emphasize approaching women with a strong sexual frame and intent, then letting everything flow naturally from that core — the teasing, kino, verbal foreplay and escalation.
Look forward to the next installments. Wish we could get it in one bite, rather than piecemeal.
thanks man! it’ll be really interesting to do all this stuff!
kissy Says:
Brilliant!
Adam Says:
This was a good vieo. You actually made it clear and concise, unlike the others where they seem to go in circles. They say a lot without saying anything at all. Thanks
Sonny Says:
Unfortunately I have met one of my tens and have been dating her for about 3 weeks. After listening to what you have said I realize I have made some major mistakes. I know that she wants to be with me but things have slowed down and I was wondering if there’s something I can do at this point to move forward.
roger Says:
thanks for the good info. There are so many people out here puting out pick up info and it’s hard to know what is valid. I have noticed though that I do get a lot of long conversations and ploped into the friend zone. What you are saying may have merit. can’t wait to test it out. R
I have always been sexual in conversation but I have failed most of the time because my art was too forward. I am going to try this technique to see what happens. I would like more examples to help me refine myself. I am more of a visual kind of person. I need more beautiful women in my life. At 47 it doesn’t get any easier.
I found out that all the things i have been doing allthese years are wrong, and I also figured out what to do to correct the problem. I am one of those men raised to not talk about sex, or anything sexual around women. But insted of avoiding the subject of sex, use it in subtle ways, that will attract women, and get them into bed. but be careful not to over do the subject, or it could have the reverce efect. Thank you for your time and video, I am a 58 year old man atracted to a 25 year old woman. If I get her, it will be largely because of you and your video.
You’re doing just great….. absolutley. I know you know your shit. I want to learn it. Thank you.
vaston Says:
All in all, what really matters is getting them in our beds. Thank you very much for your work
David Says:
Jon- This info is really really applicable and explains much of my trouble with going all the way with a woman! will definitely change my approach and I am sure success. TYVM!
Mark Says:
Great concepts. How can get access to the follow up video 2 and 3?
Michael C Says:
You opened my eyes,
Michael C Says:
i feel like im going right way, you just cut my time of learning how to pick up. Thanks a lot. Good luck
John J. Says:
Jon, have great stuff I don’t type alot I’am 55 single and dating a 44 year old women would like dating other women and the 44 year at same time. She’s looking to get married and I’am not just want to have fun. Have any pointers? Thanks keep up the good work. Wish this stuff was around wend I was younger.
Jib Says:
most powerful stuff i have ever read and tried out .
thanks Sinn . keep them coming . !!
NICHOLAS ERIC TWOMEY Says:
EXELENT!!!
Juan Says:
Sounds great. Curious what the next few steps are and how useful they will be ! Keep up the good work
Intrigue Says:
I agree with that for the most part. I, like Style, investigate as many different approaches and theories to make my own. This video proved very truthfull in what I already do in my method. I eagerly await your next video.
The Baldman Says:
Interesting to see where all this goes.
westy Says:
Good video.
I’m from the U.K and have been struggling with this stuff for a while now…
this video far surpasses pretty much ALL of the stuff I have read so far.
I know I have it in me, I can feel it. It’s getting passed that barrier.
I guess my problem is a fear of success :S
Great stuff anyway and much appreciated.
Craig Brown Says:
What’s left to say. You know your stuff. You know the score about these things
Jeff R. Says:
You talk a lot about your students…how do I become one of your students?
Andrew Says:
Wow great stuff!!!!
You sure do know what you are talking about and everything make sense!
Thanks a lot Sinn!
Dave Says:
Very informative and good information that sound practical.
great video, cant wait for next one, in this video u mention that u do make a sexual joke with in 5 mins of meeting woman. what happens when u on ur work situation or social enviourment? for my thing is i do lot of work and there is plenty of hot chicks comes to my work place but with me i have 3 girls colligue who comes from strict religious back ground and we all are asian where culture is very much diffrent then europe or states and education level is diffrent and mentality is diffrent. indeed i would love to pull 2 of them who are strict muslim.i do joke around with them and i do touch them some time on hands or shoulders or i do tease them verbal but i would like to know your opinion as what you would do in those situation where you dont have to go though complications and you do get laid. you can write me on my personal email as well which is just_2_hawt@hotmail.co.uk
Niño Says:
Good work Jon!
Joker Says:
Nice one, still a little bit vague. only, women are emtional based and need a lot of mental arousal, it`s what gets them over the edge. still good vid. i`m looking forward to the next one
Skyblue Says:
Finaly someone with a new perspective. I’m still a little sceptical yet will check out your stuff and hope it proves true.
Chris Says:
how can I buy the product? the “mystery” on how to do so is tiring
Chris Says:
how can I buy it? the suspense is killing me
Anze Says:
your work is great. cant wait for the next video to learn your approach and test it in the real world as soon as possible.
oded Says:
Well, as I see it its not that thows other methods are dead wrong..
just extremely ineffective. Still, the problem of transforming knowledge to effect is vary real as I should know. What exactly in your method help me get over that fence?
H Says:
i like your technique because it elimanates all the point less activities that were old fashion. I really cant wait to see your new video I really need this!!!
I used to practice seduction at Waikiki Beach and learned it DOES begin with Hi!. When talking to Japanese or other foreigners whose English skills may have been weak, I learned to use the eyes at once so there would be NO DOUBT about what was on my mind. I offered a one hour massage for $10 right where she was sunning, because it took me 2 weeks of daily failures to learn nobody wanted a “free massage”. The physical connection then came on strong as rubbing new women you select from thousands allowed them to feel there was more than “just a massage” going on. Because 100% of them had a hotel nearby it was easy to offer to continue “the massage” at her place. Even if she didn’t have enough cash on her to pay me, it was never the $10/hour. And it never failed that when we got to her place to get paid, I got paid!
Mike Says:
I think you actually grabbed my attention away from mystery and style. As much as I’m trying to learn they’re process it just not good enough. I mean I get lucky and I’ve gotten better but I think there is an easier way like you said. Can’t wait for the next video.
ollie Says:
great video and i do see your point the only problem is to make a statement such as for all the techniques we have learnt so far are wrong it seemed you were talking a lot of information but didn’t seem like there was much substance as to exactly what is right and wrong and what we should replace the outdated ineffective knowledge with
Smitty Says:
I’ve seen men pick up women without saying a word to them in the clubs so I have to think that long drawn out stories isn’t needed everytime but I do see the need to also have good conversation with the girl and I think this method will help me do that from what I heard from the video.
Don’t tell me about sexual anxiety lol.
Guys think that approach anxiety is bad,
wait till they get past the approach and have the girl in a
place where sex can happen!
All that fear of “not knowing what to say” for
approach, intensifies when you have your girl in front
of you begging to sex her and “you can’t get it up”.
The easiest way to get rid of that shitty anxiety is to
make it playful and a challenge. Just tell her to get you
hard. Be playful and challenge her to turn you on.
Or, you can go down on her first then tell her to show you what she can do before you keep going…
Sinn tells you EXACTLY how you can become that
dominant man who will never suffer from sexual anxiety
and instead, make you “her best ever”
Great video Sinn!
Brandon
TextHerTonight.com
Great stuff Jon!
Seduction Roadmap looks tight… gonna spread the word about it on my site…
Can’t wait for the next two videos and teleseminar…
Exciting and interesting stuff! Looking forward to the next videos!
Really appreciate the effort that went into this, Jon. Sometimes I think the most important thing is just to get out there, get yourself into good positions and the rest will take care of itself if you just remember to relax. And by and large I still think that is true (lined up a couple of dates this weekend by virtue of just going out this week, ordinarily that would never happen). But it’s worth remembering that at some point (the earlier the better) you really need to inject sexuality into the proceedings. I have no problem with attraction or comfort. In fact, I own them. Making things sexual on the other hand, is a bit alien to me. Otherwise, I wouldn’t be here watching this, I’d probably be making my own videos! So again, thanks for the advice and I look forward to the rest of the series.
Hey mate,
Great video cant wait for the next one. Had some killer sexual anxiety the other night. Went on a date, going well, she is driving, drops me home (as i didnt have the car)then comes the part i HATE. You’re home sitting in the car and then the first thing you say in ‘SO..’ (awkward silence) then it just went down hill from down there. I knew she wanted to kiss me and from that it could have been coffee, then who knows instead it was a crap kiss (completely cold – on my part, her cheek couldnt be much more into it) and a cold bed. I didnt completely burn out i got a 2nd date for this weekend, dvd marathon.. My thoughts were if i create a situation no amount of sexual anxiety can mess up then its bound to happen… right?? hope video 2 comes out in time!
A
hey mate ,
FINALLY,THIS STUFF MAKES SENSE.
I follow news letters from all over, never got anywhere, TOO SMART FOR MY OWN GOOD, BUT YOU JUST POINTED OUT TWO KEY ANSWERS I’VE NEVER DONE ON A REGULAR BASIS, 1)joining the real world not just reading, 2)sexual attraction and expressing it.
Good stuff, can’t wait for the next one.
Cheers
focusing totally on getting laid is v refreshing, and I’d love to think it cd help a 61-yr old man who hasnt got laid in years (but has no other problems with women)
Hey great video sinn. You really touched different areas.
Like the idea where you give out some REAL information, rather than the competition videos kinda just talk in circles, and don’t get anything usefull said.
i like your concise and direct approach getting laid is what were all after weather we care to admit it or not and having just gotten out of a 9 year relationship i need to get back into the game (no pun intended) and quick success is the best way to get on your feet i am waiting with bated breath for the next video
I’m intrigued by this video. It addressed some of my concerns. I can’t wait to see more because I think this is something I badly need.
Awesome man, I’m glad I don’t have to pay for it. Although I realize that it’s very valuable information. Thanks.
you got me sitting still i’ll be back
Sounds like it has some great advice and am looking forward to the others. Was a little turned off by what I felt was overly rubbishing the other techniques although the points you make are sound.
You’re addressing very important deficiencies that the community has and I applaud you for taking action about it. Mentioning other schools of thought by name was also very ballsy since I notice this community likes to bash without name-dropping.
Btw, heard you on the MM CD series not too long ago and you seemed to be pretty solid back then too so I’m expecting you to have come a long way
Game On!
It was great to watch something I always belived was true rather thn M.M
I am from turkey so alfa male action is so high I dont hold my emotions back and say wht I fell woman always love this thkns Sin lots to learn
enjoyed the video
The thing that always bothered me about M.M. is that it was ALWAYS focussed on approaching and just the first few minutes of attraction building. Building attraction with women in a bar isnt my problem, its building the ‘comfort’ (which isnt really comfort as i learned the hard way) to actually have sex.
Im really looking forward to your next videos because you said what i have been thinking for a few months now.
I knew it! I knew that it didn’t work to leave out the sex-talk! Thank you for bringing this up, makes gaming so much easier.
Interesting video that showed me an awesome new look at the situation! Thanks Sinn!
This is really good stuff…thanks a bunch for posting it.
Are you going to explain how to do the techniques (ie. sexual arousal, 1-on-1-to-Sex techniques) in detail in the other videos? I really want to figure out how this works.
awesome stuff, do you have any material to help a college student like me? because i think its different when you try to attract people you already know and constantly see everyday. thanks for your help and cheers for the brilliant video.
Hey man,
Awesome info and really can’t wait for the rest.
Oh, and no, I am not that Asian Kenny, although I am Asian, hehe.
Anyway, having sex with 5 girls a month almost seems like impossible and must be fantastic. I so deserve to walk with a hot girl every other guy will be jealous of. I live in the Netherlands and you have no idea how many ugly and fat guys walk with an amazing hot babe.
Things are definitely gonna change after your videos.
Thank you, Jon Sinns
I’m interested in this idea, but at the same time it seems like you’re saying “mystery did it wrong, here’s how you really do it” but you just restate a lot of the stuff he is saying. it almost seems like you didn’t grasp a lot of his stuff, but i do like your stress on sexuality right from the get go, which might come off as sleezy but we’ll see. very interested to see the rest of the videos
Hey Sinn, first of all thanks for coming down to Sydney at the Medina Hotel that one time last year. Great seminar. Really enjoyed it and have come very far since then.
In this video you posted, one HUGE thing i was reminded of was the sexual escalation both physically and verbally. The teasing, the humorous implied ideas and playfulness early on. Some great ideas there mate. Cheers
This ties in totally with what has been producing cnsistent results for me in the past 6 months. As soon as I talk o a girl, I start kino’ing – namely figure a way of getting to rub her neck just below her ears. A great way into this is to say ‘Forget palm reading- I can tell a lot about you just from examining your neck’. Then when I touch her neck and tug on her hair, I whisper into her ear ‘ you are a very sensual person’.
They love it:-)
Intrigued.
This really is the area I have the greatest trouble transitioning to. Getting from being friendly to getting sexy is the greatest mental hurdle and you’re naturally hesitant to bare intentions at this critical juncture in case your refused. I can see though how this is the really critical move you should be doing. Demonstration of confidence with your sexuality is probably the single most attractive thing you could do in interactions with women. I find it is social conditioning which most impacts on these situations. Fear of being nailed for sexual harassment is bad enough fear of what others may think affects both you and the girl you’re pursuing. It’s a tricky area. Thanks for your info.
damn, this is nice stuff, you really hit the spot there.
Hey man liked the video. hope it s not one of the infinite advertising videos out there which focus on keeping up tension forever and just try to sell the product at last. i trust yours wont.
i dont have much sexual anxiety, when the girl is in my hands i usually do what i want. my problem is the “how do i lead to that?” after so much infos around, my head is exploding. i dont care about theories, steps etc.. so i hope finally you could show something new to show that which every male has in- sexual tension- and dont look like a pervert. to make a cheesy movie example – 007 – ok it s a movie – but fucks like a beast and does not hang around showing disinterest…he states sexual intent…
be different from others..show real new infos!
thanks
riccardo
Hi john. Im from Bilbao (Spain). I´m really tired of all the stuff in the internet related with seduction. I find this video very interesting. I hope you can offer us something really good in the next videos. Thank you very much, and congratulations, you make a lot of good work.
Some of it is really useful Info cheers!
Ok, getting laid is nice but does mot make me really happy.
I want a LTR, is this method also valid to start an LTR ?
You seem to focus only on Sex
Wow,and here i thought Mystery and Style’s Game was the ultimate! What’s really weird is that i have such bad approach anxiety but my sexual anxiety isn’t as bad, what’s the quickest way to get over this. I’ve just finished reading the Game, Mystery Method, Venusian Arts, and alot more but still can’t really deal with the approaches, I’m a second Year Architecture student.
It’s very interesting opinion about the book The Game and teachings of Neill Straus. I have always thought that it is the basement of all the pick-up teachings but now you really confused me. I am looking forward to your next video because it’s gonna be very helpful. Also thanks fot his one, you revealed a lot of useful informations. And your personal story is very interesting to listen to.
Best regards,
Jakub
And I think it should be a great a idea you to tell us some missions (or exercises), for example make same openers during a few days.and so on…
Its so good to finally meet you Sinn! Cant wait for next video!
i love the video. i’ve been practising game for about 3 months and have reached a mid-level skill in game. i can open pretty well and get lots of attraction- even my comfort game is pretty tight and i keep an interesting conversation going. however i can’t sexually escalate. even getting a make-out is pretty hard for me! i have realised that with all my skill and ability in game i still can’t get laid!!! so for me the above video has really struck a cord. sexual escalation is now the main focus of my game and hopefully after i sort it out i will start getting and end product for all my hard work
I can say it’s been an real problem for me, except every great once in an while where everything just flows.
Also man, the infos is great but could you explain a bit more the subject of sexual attraction? it s too briefly stated at the end
thanks
riccardo
I think the information is great!!! We read so much about being the nice and decent guy, approaching, openers,build rapport and escalate in phases b4 sex.it is a great topic to talk 2 women about but rily u cant keep talkin abt it all day like u r devoid of interesting topics other than sex and this makes u appear horny or a pervert lookin for a sexual adventure partner. Sinn, lookin forward 2 the other videos, gre8 info by the way!!!! i Rily hav sumfin personal 2 ask and talk 2 u abt. Rily personal. How do i reach u wiv dis information?
Great stuff as usual man!
Looking forward to the rest of the videos.
Hmmm so we are basically first being told Saturday, then Sunday.
HI ALO ILO V UUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUU
Dear Sinn.
this is some awesome advice for the guys around the world.. I loved every word of your presentation.. Man this is straight up to the point.. no dragging and in bed in no time… I love the concept of same night lay in less than 4 hours of meeting a beautiful blond for the first time in one of the hottest night clubs in any given city around the globe.. Man I should take some professional training from you to polish up my game with these new strategies of your.. Cheers and all the best for you hard earned skills.
Lots of ?’s. Very interesting since I have noticed most of the material out there is all towards building attraction, not sustaining it or going beyond it into the bedroom.
My main ? is, Should you use different approaches on different woman or the same fundamental approach on all women?
Does make sense, really looking forward to the next vid keep it up Sinn(Y). Although I do have a question: I wanna know HOW you create sexual attraction whitout conveying (maybe negative?) interest in the lady. I mean aren’t you then the tenth guy tonight(if u’re in a club for example) who just wants to have sex with her? If U create the right sexual attraction, then off course your chances of getting laid will rise. Shedding my light on this, still learning…
Sounds very promising.Focused and practical
Great video John, It all makes sense. Approaching is easy, getting stuck in a non sexual friend zone has been a difficulty for me. I’m glad you are teaching how to make interactions sexual and how easy it can be. Thanks for producing the Seduction Road Map, can’t wait for the other videos and teleseminar.
keep up the good work sinn
i never thought of using sexual tension thank you.
great video ! makes alot of sence in getting the women into bed faster and more frequent!does make gaming alot more easier. cnt wait 4 the nxt 1
awesome! changed my mindset a little bit, but I’m openend minded to hear what you have to say..
I used to be really into Mystery Method, and pick up. Your info and videos are great because they don’t rely on complicated modeling or following rules stringently. I’m always looking for better ways to work out better, more “natural” game. Plus, you’re funny as F.
Good stuff.
Sinn, I’m 60 and have pretty good luck talking to girls. At first they’re into me but loose interest pretty fast. I can’t wait to try some of this.
Sounds very interesting, and sexual anxiety is exactly what I got.
I’ve had it since I was like 12. Other boys in school mocked me for physical differences sexually.
Today I’m 36 and I feel kind of bored and non-sexual towards women when it comes to sex. I love touching and being close to them, as I am a great salsa dancer, but that’s where it stops. I would like to feel like I was 21 when I was horny as hell. I’m not sure that’s the reason for my body today feeling so weak sexually… scared I guess for being good enough so it shuts down.
This is where I need help to get passed these disabling thoughts.
That’s my feedback,
Thanks a lot for the video and your work!
/Salsa
A lot this of what you said are things that I think about. They’re places I get stuck intermittently.
For instance, this is with the same girl mind you, 1st: I was with her a couple of weeks ago, we were on a beach, chillin out, talkin’, having a couple of beers and relaxing, she said she wanted to sleep over cause where she lived was far, this equaled a lay. I should mention that I was under the influence of a little beer and Xanax, we wanted to experiment a little bit.
But last week, this same girl is at my apt, sleeping over, we’re watching a movie and for whatever reason, she was doing the same thing that she did before, LMR, and it’s not like I couldn’t overcome it, but I didn’t, something happened that made me get off of her and I froze or did it wrong or whatever. I just didn’t get the result that I wanted, that she probably wanted.
Whatever the case maybe, but I’ve encountered that several times with various girls. It’s not like they’re not attracted to me, it definitely feels like I have an issue with escalating or correct escalation, regardless of the fact, I’m highly motivated to hear and act upon what you’ve got. I always thought I might have to go to a bootcamp to get this taken care of, but maybe that’s not the case.
Altogether, it was a good video and definitely more content or potential in this one video than I’ve seen or had in a long time. I’m hyped.
I have listened to the first video and it seems to confirm what I already thought. I am having problems with a certain lady trusting me enough to go out with me. She says I am a player. I am taken by her, can’t seem to get past that comment. Thought your videos might enlighten me on how to correct that perception.
Loved the video. I always thought there was a faster way to get a girl in bed. It never took long in college.
The Mystery Method isn’t ”incorrect” but like all PUA systems out there, they generally just work for one specific type of girl. Thats essentially the problem. Even what Adam Lyons and Brad P teach generally caters to one type of girl. This is why you will only succeed 10-15 percent of the time because the female population is so diversified. Judging from the video, this new method is most likely going to work for girls who are open with their sexuality. But some girls are not and they like the idea of romance.
A good example, my friend was seeing this girl awhile ago but things ended badly because he was sexual. The girl basically said, ”You would have gotten sex from me if you had been more amourous”. Like I said, different girls, different results. As in this case, the girl did not like a sexual approach or sexual topics. Instead, the way into her pants was romance.
A very useful talk. Gives encouragement. The idea of introducing sex as a normal topic of conversation
with a new woman surprised and delighted me. I can’t wait to hear your next video.
Like Phil, I am 60. But I am not dead or over the hill. I like \beautiful young women. By far the best money I spent was buying The Sexual Key, which teaches how to build attraction using just words and stories. So far, I have used it with women as young as 21 and got them to come to my place. But it never leads to sex. So I can’t wait to see the next videos, because I know I can approach, build rapport, get phone numbers and dates. But I come off as Mr. Nice Guy and not the guy who will rock their world sexually. This is good stuff and I hope it isn’t all a tease to pitch us on some expensive course.
awesome! I get laid alot, 1 steady GF and a few satellites. But none of them are really what i want, and it uses up my free time juggling these girls…time that COULD be used finding something better. Any comments?
Great stuff love to see the rest of it!
Hi Jon,
Thanks for the video! I understand that you should explain the basic concept, and that getting sexual can help you to store energy and get to the results more effectively, But why don’t you explain more in details the technique to be used? which phrases in which situation..some more specific example that could be used as guiding line?
Hey men! This is awesome material. You showed me that seduce may be something simple and not only a pile of unnecessary rules, techniques and routine. I think it could be another breakthrough approach to seduction
thanks men,
Pol
So far what you’ve said will be great for guys first getting into the community and trying to wade through the sea of material available.
However, despite being a virgin myself, I have already found that being more direct and sexual in nature always gives me better results and more satisfaction with my pickup. I’m definitely interested in what you believe is the best way to go about this. Me and a couple of my friends first heard about game in mid ’08 (through “The Game”)when we were 16 and stumbled our way through trying to get some consistency throughout ’09. I’ve got to the point of being considered a player by my social circles (I know I’m not the first, but it’s annoying getting those comments while a virgin, heh).
The chance to sleep with girls has come up a couple of times, but I’ve never sealed the deal because they tended to be girls I gamed ‘for practice’ and didn’t really care about. Cause of this firm belief I was above their value I fired off alot of sexual comments, innuendos and actions, not giving a fuck. So, of course, they became more and more interested/invested/aroused. But that just might be an inner game issue of my own, getting needy on girls I’m attracted to, etc.
I’ve found that some girls have lapped up the sexual/jokes and innuendos yet others throw out shit tests about me being sleazy etc. They all seem attracted though, so I imagine it’s a matter of timing. I’d be very interested to see your opinion on the key to getting consistent positive responses to sexual framing and escalation.
Either way I won’t be able to attend your teleseminar since I’m broke at the moment, but I’ve found your blog, videos and advice to be a breath of fresh air. I’m taking steps to follow your suggested “Where to start with game”, which is an example of the logical and easy to understand way you present your knowledge.
Good luck with everything,
Squid
Can’t wait to see the rest. This video comes at a curious time for me. I was actually with a girl the other night and I came to the realization that I’m great getting girls back to my bedroom and makeout and all that, but as soon as it’s time to move past that, I lock up. I started looking for some solutions, and this is what I found. I hope this delivers.
Thanks,
Ells
To the point easily understandable,very good work and very helpful. Thanks a lot.
This is the best seduction stuff i have ever herd and think too if you throw sexual tension in first then they can see you as a sexual person early but just a sprinkle with attraction on top lol
Good stuff.Looking forward to more videos like this.
Hey, I have to be honest. Last weekend I was chatting up a gorgeous girl in a bar and I had her attention most of the night. I was even getting a lot of KINO across BUT I realise now that I wasn’t talking about anything sexual because I wanted to be a good guy. At the end of the evening, when I tried to get her on a date, I crashed and burned and she started talking to another guy. I was close but no cigar. I think I know what I did wrong now.
John I really appreciate this information. I was married 35 years and divorced for 2.5 yrs. I have gone out with about 12-15 women and nothing.
I have learned that I had a case of Nice Guy.
I am working strongly on that issue. Your program should help me a lot.
Kind of like combining the MM & DYD. David D always says to never miss out talking sexually, talk about sex and tease about it if she says a sex synonym in a non-sexual context like “i was blowing the… “-you cut in-”I can’t believe you’re trying to get me into bed already. I just met you.” and that you MUST be the one to start talking about it, though he doesn’t have an actual method.
Great video Sinn!
I’m going to be telling people about your product on my site and offering a BONUS for it because after checking out the product, it’s really good.
Looking forward to this
Brandon
TextHerTonight.com
cant wait for next episode great stuff!
Man, this is awesome. I love the way you explain things, and also (not in a gay maner), i love the way you speak, really slow, deep voice, it makes it easier to understand everything.
Can’t wait for the following stuffs !
Thanks !
I’m very interested for your next posts… you claim to have sex in less than 7 hours, I went to some kind of seminar of european PUA’s, one of them was adam sleazy, he claimed to have sex with girls in less than an hour from the moment he opened the set! he also claims that his fastest set was 5 to 10 minutes. he, like you, said that every PUA is doing it wrong and that his method is te best. didn’t like his charisma anyway, he was too narcistic and arrogant. you should google him. anyway looking forward to the videos!
Really enjoyed the video.
Finally something that makes sense too.
Really looking forward to the next videos.
Exciting and interesting indeed. All of what you say does make sence… but all those other things about raising your value and being a wanted commodity inside a bar did make sense too. Your video was fun, straight to the point and kept interesting unlike many of its kind which are boring. I’ve also witnessed other PUA methods which mainly focus on how to approach a woman and don’t say the key ideas on how to get her attraction or sexual interest. I figured out that if you’re not good looking enough these are crap.
And i’m so frustrated with this whole thing. My looks are very average(if not below) and i’m desperate for some ideas that will get me more women. I know I’m a great and interesting guy like many others out there but i’m having so much trouble getting the interest of a girl. To say nothing about getting her on my bed. Thank you for this video and i look forward to the next one
MM touches on all the stuff that happens after attraction, not just attraction, and that 15 minutes thing is Tao of Steve. MM teaches that “attraction is only a tool” over and over again. I have never taught for Mystery, but I am assuming that maybe Sinn knows something I don’t that actually happened in the sessions. Maybe during the live sessions Mystery and Strauss focus on the beginning too much. Also, you can tell that in the Mystery Method book that Mystery got kind of impatient towards the end and rushed everything from C2 forward. Maybe he had a deadline.
This is all academic; I don’t think what Sinn is saying is wrong, and I’ll look forward to seeing the rest of the videos. I myself get stuck at the “waypoint” of pulling a girl out of the club. I get good dances, but I always want to eject if I don’t do everything perfectly.
The main thing to teach someone like me is how to stay in there when the going gets a little tough. I heard Sinn say that “you don’t have to attract a girl every minute of the interaction.” Teach more about HOW to back off. It seems like when I back off, some other clown rushes in and takes my spot, or the girl loses ALL attraction for me and goes on to someone else.
Jon is right. If you want sex with a girl, the best approach is to be sexual with her right from the moment you meet. If the girl likes you at all, which you can tell by her body language and smile, she will greatly appreciate the candor.
great video makes a lot of sense of avoiding all the lengthy crap like attraction and all come to the main point SEX. That’s what most of my buddies do and they get laid left and right. Can’t wait for the next video.
GREAT I CANT WAIT TO GET LAID!
Hey Jon
I always felt some seduction techniques did not work for me, especially the whole “pick up line” stuff, how lame is that?
Can’t wait to see your next videos man. thanks for bringing new elements to the game !
Thanks, interesting material. I will be back.
Points to the very reasons why guys did’nt get laid and provides remedies to overcome it. Hope to see the rest of the videos.
You would end on a cliffhanger. This video really got me in the mindset to learn exactly what you are going to be teaching. I look forward to hearing what this new system is all about and applying it in conjunction to your Day Game stuff.
Not bringing up something sexual near the beginning of an interaction is DEFINITELY shooting yourself in the foot… [Insert any friend zone story from high school here].
im still kinda puzzled on this 1st step on the Seduction Road Map u said that u have 2 make sexual attraction 1st when u see the girl or after uv been talking 4 a while
So far, so nice.
I am tuned for the next video. Best to you, Sinn.
Thanks for the great info. Keep it coming! Looking forward to the next video.
I fall into that group of guys who can talk to women without any real trouble but tries to not talk about sex, but I guess it makes perfect sense to signal your intentions early
That way if you have a real prud you can bail out
Like Nick above, I’m really looking forward to your day game stuff
I’m interested to see what else you have to say john, I really like the analogy of woman being a step behind then men, and that they need to be stimulated and turned on physically, this makes sense although I don’t see how you really differ than mystery. The A3 push pull game seems similar to this, although the sexual aspect is generally ignored in the comfort phase of his game. How can men portray their sexuality to women without looking like a creep? I hope you can elaborate your main idea for us and give us more examples.
i like this
I think we all can feel that this is very exciting stuff because it ALL make sense! lol I think a lot of guys knew about this in the back of their minds but don’t do it enough. If you address it to the world, more guys will do it MORE OFTEN. “Seduction starts at hello” crazy quote but it’s sooo true lol Thanks bud, keep it up! You are the man to do it…
How do you apply your techique to on-line dating ?
Extremely insightful. Loved it!
YOU HAVE MY ATTENTION!!!!
Excellent video. You really got my attention with this one. It seems your game has evolved light years ahead of the community in general. I appreciate your honesty in critiquing the Mystery method and in pointing out the flaws with seduction teaching. Students will usually just be told it is they who are flawed not the teaching. Looking forward the rest of the videos in this series.
Hi! I my name is Florentin I have been gaming and learning game for two years now. I have sleppt with over 100 women so far and I havent really been out that much.
I like your video. I started with mistery method and found it very boring after a while. I dident like to use rules and bounderies in my interaction with a woman. I wanted it to be more free and fun. Which I nowdays manage to get. but Im still confused sometimes with what thechnique is best! direct or indirect? playing hard to get or just be honest with what I feel in the moment?
I found that it really just depends on the situation and the girl! The more you seduce girls the better you become at reading threm, and thats when you know what to do and when to do it!
Greate video Im with you 100% and looking forward to see more:)
Thanks
Awesome man!
That´s the kind of game we need! We need to know how to get more pussy, more women, i really liked the video, but i wonder if all that sexual escalation physically and verbally, can be done in any environment, such as during the day, or during a date with a girl. I´m asking because actually yesterady i went on a date with a girl (who i´ve kissed before), and i couldn´t kiss her !!!!, you may be thinking, what a fucking AFC, yes you are right!, that´s why i need your help.
Also, Dear Sinn, i want to know if you are aware of the “other” methods out there designed to get women into bed quickly, especially: The Attration methods by Magic, Stealth Attraction by Gambler from PUA training. And Real world seduction by SwingCat. Do you know any of these? What do you think of them?
The Swingcat´s book is actually very helpfull and full of techniques like open loop, push pull, fourfold metaframe, prizability, etc.
Ok, i´m lloking forward to the next video! (Your web page is going to favourites for sure).
Take care!
This is huge. The only close that matters is a f*** close. I have no problem opening, building rapport, using kino and kiss closing. Sometimes I end up practicing on women who eventualy volunteer thier number but I have no intention of ever calling. I don’t like being a jerk that way but I can number close all day long. My phone is full of numbers that went nowhere.
I need help. I’ve only had 3 same night lays with a best time of just over 2 hrs (from “Hello” to “wait, let me put this condom on”) and $0 dollars spent. Show us more John on how to bed more babes in one night. Until I decide that I’d like a wife, this is all that matters.
VERY VERY GOOD. LOOKING FOWARD TO MORE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Well you’ve got me wanting the next video. So tell me, how do you go about creating this attraction and get someone interested over the internet. Say on a dating site?
This is sheet; where is the method? Where are the examples to work off of?
This video really made a lot more sense to me. and i cant wait to learn more!
Great video. Probably the best “free” video I have seen and I have seen a lot of them.
I also like your concept and, like you, have had many reservations about the Mystery Method.
You brought up some really important stumbling blocks like sexual anxiety.
I am interested in hearing more from you and your method.
John,
Thank you for the video. I have been married for a while and out of the dating game. I am looking forward to the next video. I can use all the help you can give me.
I have read and studied materials by “Mystery”, David Shade and Richard La Runa. I’m feeling you are about to tell us to go for the artery and eliminate the extra steps or bs, if so then I ‘m all in.
It sounds great, can’t wait for the next video.As regards questions
I’m thinking of social circle game or areas that haven’t been covered before like someone that was just introduced to you which isn’t a cold approach.
Or not being over shadowed by your more talkative friends when you find yourself in the company of girls they know or girls in a bar.
interesting and glad you’re taking the time to do this… but is this leading up to you trying to sell your book.. the secret is in your book type thing?? I have read Neil straus\s the game and followed a bit of mystery’s method too… so I like how you have tackled those 2 big names and believe you have something better… I think you would find me an interesting person to talk to let alone me finding you interesting… send me a message if you have the time.
Nice video! I’m interested in anything that reduces memorizing routines and steps! It seems like all my natural instincts to do whatever I want in early-interaction with women is quelled by my vast knowledge of game and lack of actual real-life interactions, (ie too much reading).
Very interested in what’s next! Also I’m wondering if you have any thoughts on why I can maintain approach anxiety without ever having suffered much in the way of sexual anxiety? I read some comments about someone wanting missions and would greatly appreciate any assistance in missions that actually gain useful experience, if that’s upcoming, GREAT!
. Also, mad props for not selling this information, I hope this opens things up more for everyone.
Cheers!
Well, Jon, first off, congratulations! You could uncodify some concepts about Venusian Arts. Thanks so much for allowing us to know the truth about The Game and the Mystery Method. We men need to have good sex, and I hope you can teach us how to have women come up with having sex and wake up their hidden both sexual desires and fantasies, so as you know, although they like sex as us men, they’re oppressed. Once again, thanks so much and congratulations.
Hungry to know more!
seems to be good. I will try this and give you my feedback
Yah Sinn thanks that was a very convincing presentation. Your comments on sex talk in the first five minutes have raised questions. Do you mean to say women are very open to talking about sex with strange men? This theory goes directly against the Way of Gun. Is Gunwitch wrong? Have women changed their way of operating ?(consciously relaxed morals )
good start.looking forward for more.
You’ve got my attention and I’ve looked at quite a few things….
Great video – looking forward to the next one. Especially enjoyed the concept of working sex into the conversation early – putting it in her mind. Would be great if you could give a few concrete examples of how you’ve done this. Thanks.
Good stuff bro ,
At this point in my life I got 2 jobs happening little time for myself but I rather SPEND my time meeting and get laid fast as possible with the little free time I got. You read my mind. The many lovely ladies( strippers, shooters , dancers ,etc. etc) is what I want for now. Look forward to the next video.
We’ll done. Very professional. A breakthrough. solid.
When I’m done with grad-school and get a job I’m going to purchase some of your products to 1. Improve further 2. Pay you something for all the help I’m now getting for free.
AND he’s asian?!?!
loved the video….super cool and useful..dude you have it nailed ! i can only immagine the work and determination you put into this.
Could you create video or videos of you actually talking to a girl so that we can see exactly how you do it in different scenarios.
gez.
interesting. Will try to use some of this as its very different from what I have read before
Looks like I finally am going to be able to get on the train I’ve been missing!
I can say that based on using just your qualification CD I’ve gotten 2 lays this month and wouldn’t have gotten it with out as I know where my sets go when I didn’t use it. I’m very interested to hear the next two videos.
Interesting stuff. I got over sexual anxiety early, but have always had problems with sexual escalation and sexualizing conversations. I look forward to the new videos.
Very good information.
sexualizing the conversation seems like a no-brainer – how could we think we can do without it? thanks for the common sense
Good stuff, Jon!
Being a “nice guy” I have some attractive girls in the “friend-zone”…
I regularely bring up sexual themes in a playful and confident manner, achieving promising response, but still fail in the ultimate “transition”.
Would love your advice for these “final steps”…
THX, Milka
Hello!
I really appreciate this stuff and I absolutely agree with it.
It formed my mindset a little bit and it’s another good thing that if you want to do something then you have to mention it right from the start…
Hi Jon,
Your advise and information are amazingly sound, in my view. The amazing part is that a lot of is has not been (generally) told/taught before. We all know that
A – none of us is BORN with the knowledge and insights that you are presenting,
B – that what you present ADDS to general and individual human happiness and wellbeing (of BOTH halfs of the population, male AND female),
C – that this material is not (readily, clearly) available elsewhere
Combining these three aspects obviously leads to the conclusion that you are performing a service that is both quite POSITIVE and long overdue.
So, THANKS for offering it clearly and soundly.
Actually, your information concerns so-called one-night stands, only In my view). It covers such male/female interactions quite well, in my view, but this interaction type is of course LIMITED. Limited but, strangely enough, at the same time widely transgressing generally advocated moral boundaries. Not transgressing any natural human instincts and desires, but al the same I would expect many socalled moral authorities to consider your information cause for frowning eyebrows (i.e. controversial or even more negative).
Mentally and physicalle, sex ralationships are by no means a simple subject. You covered your chosen part (male seduction leading up to one-night stands)admirably well, I feel, thereby providing a GREAT and innovative service.
But, of course, you cover only a quite limited PART of the total human male-female-interaction and love area…
Personally, I would prefer to see your service as part of that TOTAL field, which is so incomparably all-important in our life and daily living.
However, I am well aware of the fact that it is better to cover a limited subject well than to address a larger subject vaguely…
I wish youi lots of success, Jon. I feel that you really DESERVE it.
Great video!
Sin…I am just over 50yrs and have been doing naturally what you bring up for many years (since 15), but never realized what I have been doing and It is interesting to hear it straight forward. Looking forward to the rest you are offering.
I do have one question, I have had great luck when I have let myself relax and not really worry about getting someone (almost a “I don’t care if you blow this” attitude)…but blow it a lot when I am working it (I think they can smell the fear). I know I need to chill and realize, that there are a ton of them out there. When I mark one and go after her the percentages go down for success. Just a thought…..well thank’s, looking forward to the next transmission.
this is the best stuff i’ve eva seen !!
This is really good stuff, the relaxed, honest approach has always worked for me, I really like how smoothly Jon transitions. This also proves that you can say almost anything to a girl if you are smiling, confident and grounded. No “pick-up” lines required at all. Years ago, I invested in David D’Angelos Double your Dating and learned so much about the psychology of how women think and what we men do wrong. He first opened my eyes to this world as well as being more relaxed in business. Women have their own interpretation of what you say, so be upfront and they will usually chuckle and aggressively go after you to make out wth you, which, when you make manly grunting noises while playing in the nape of the neck and ears, always result in really good sex. If you are skilled enough to give her 3 or 4 orgasms with your tongue and fingers, she WILL melt and become like a loyal, grateful dog. At this point, there is virtually nothing she won’t do for you. Wish I’d known about this stuff 30 years ago. I’m 51 and one of my GFs is 30, we’ve been in a low commitment relationship for over 3 years, he’s easily a 9.5, has offers from other guys all the time, pays for all our restaurant outings, the meals at her place, a Corvette for me, the holidays we’ve had and basically does whatever I ask. I tease her all the time about crazy shit like telling her not to gain any more weight because she’s getting close to my weight cap of 110 lbs and to be careful, because after 110, she’s gone. She finds it funny because she’d so tight and fit and I’m the one who should lose about 10 or 15 lbs. When her jealousies show up or she becomes demanding, I let her know things aren’t going to work out if she continues, as soon as she sees me going for the door, her fear of abandonment issues surface and she usually gets back to my program within an hour or two. Imagine a seriously hot chick that could easily have any guy she wants, is jealous and worried about other woman taking over her position as main squeeze?? I don’t get it either but who cares… This is going to sound like I’m bragging or lying, yet in the last 7 or 8 years, I’ve enjoyed exponentially more honey pots attached to smart, stunning women than during my entire life up to that point. I wish Jon every success and hope he follows through with the videos he’s promised. I’m impressed so far…
Awesome Vid Sinn, really u made me feel more secure in this pick up stuff cuz being a “mistery method” was way too fake for me. i’m just excited to watch the rest of the videos and excited to start using them right now!
I just finished your video and I thought it was very educational. I really liked the information you set forth. I’m looking forward to more of what you have to offer. I think it’ll help me and alot of other guys.
This is beautifull straight to the point direct with little compromise and
in a masculine way,it’s funny you should talk about Neill Strauss as I’ve read his first book and half way through his second and I’ll be honest it seems to work, but your method is very convincing and exciting and is actually designed to the way my brain works naturally which is cool I’m excited and am looking forward to the rest.
One other question are things not hot between you and Neill anymore what’s the crack?
great advice, I like the commons sense approach and the way you’ve though this through. well done. better than the other bullshit I’ve read
This is really mind-blowing and simplifies a lot.
Thank you very much.
Hi Jon,
how is it possible to avoid the flinching or the nervousness when making a big move?
I’m a very youthful, good-looking 54 year-old who thought I was doing well pulling a hot girl 2 or 3 times a year. Pretty lame compared to you guys, but I’ve only recently started making a serious study of pick-up. In fact, compared to you, my game sucks, and I end up in the “friends” shit-bin all too often. Jon: being a lot younger, your game is bars and clubs, which works great for your age-group, but which I’m uncomfortable with, (besides not having any reliable wings, and living an hour from the nearest night-life). Can you refer me to any Day Game material that incorporates your style , with a more aggressively sexual slant? Also, I’m looking forward to seeing some vids of live PU’s. Your insight into attraction and female psychology is the most in-depth, rationally though-out discovery I’ve heard.
I enjoyed this video.
I agree that a lot of the information out there does not focus on sexualizing the conversation. And often when I bring up sex during the interaction, the woman seems to shut down. I would like more information on how to create sexual attraction right at the opening and have it continue throughout the interaction rather than it be some separate phase somewhere down the line.
Im one of those guys that you mention, the guy that gathers lots of info and rearely put it into practise..Im realy liking your method for the sole reason that its simple and stragiht to the point “getting laid”.. I love the fact that you cam from the school of mystery and style and now have gathered the good from that system which I agree is flawed at times and put the best of your very own talented PUA knowlede into what is now your teachings .
Theres really nothing bad to say about this. It makes sense and it clears everything up.
about time there is someone out there that debunks this game ,interested in the next videos
Hey Jon -
I want to say thanks for all the great information you have been giving about approaching and attracking beautiful women. I am 56 yo and have just laid a 28 yo girl two night ago by using your technique of approaching, building attraction and inviting her home. However, I have most of the techniques it takes to approach women, but I still fall victim to fear of approaching sometimes. It is something I want to conquer once and for all. I do know it will go away with time but do you have any suggestion to get rid of it quickly.
Hey man you hit the nail on the head. thansk cant wait to learn more!!!!
Sinn -
Definitely interesting material. It seems to resonate with me fairly deeply. Is it possible that we guys kind of already know at least some of this this stuff intuitively, and are simply conditioned to think as “nice” asexual beings as we grow up?
R,
Rob
Great ideas you have and I like how you present your ideas. You make sense about your methods.
yeah, great video. i feel i am half way there already; but, a lot of girls will shoot you down no matter what you do. i’m sure they can be conquered if you want to put the time in. i don’t. fuck ‘em.
Sankalp this side from India.I watched this two videos.Its very amazing and worth chasing.This is one of the gratest alpha strategy that i have used couple of years before.Just focus on the powerful temptation and deadliest seduction that a womens really deserves,but certain consequences are there that plays an important factor.For example—to initiate a conversation without offering her any drink.
I really appreciate that.
Please keep up the good work.
Great Stuff Sinn!
Could you elaborate more on your what you do for opening and for your attraction phase since you’re straying away from the original Mystery Method?
majin
sorry about this but it wouldnt let me play the video so how do you get it to play
Seriously though dude, I’ve been doing this seduction thing for about 3 years now, and SO FEW PEOPLE ever come out with new stuff, or good stuff, but every time I come back to your teachings, I learn something new. I honestly appreciate it. You have helped me tremendously over the last few years, and I hope that you are proud of what you have done. You put out good information and don’t just rip people off – and that’s more than I can say for a lot of people out there in the seduction world.
Brett
HEY WHAT GREAT AND INTERESTING VIDEO LESSON LOVE IT AND HOPE U TEACH ME MORE. THANK YOU.
sounds good Sinn. Are you ever in the FL area?
this is great stuff im a widower in my 50s –rusty but raring to go
So far so good, seen the “attraction” systems which are good for developing your “inner” self. But this is more of an action guide…….let’s see how we progress
Sounds great! I can’t wait to hear more from you.
i’m really curious what you’re about to bring to the table since the mm is my foundation of every pick up…i’m a skeptic i’ll try everything you say to see what the result’s gonna be… if i have results i’ll be a believer but for now your video has quite good arguments, i’m hooked for the moment…
Great reading. it’s easy and simple and straight to the point. Great points, as well.
Sinn,you are a genius my friend-i enjoyed the video,it was very educational and informing and i look forward to future videos.
just going out to put it into practice byeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
Nice video. I find myself watching alot of free how to attract/get laid things, and I do alot of those things instinctively. I am not afraid of talking to girls, I can get girls to talk about sex. Somehow, it always leads there whether I want it to or not. But then I kinda stop it before I actually do get laid. Like I get the girl going, but then I do nothing about it. Kinda like getting her to almost climax, and then leaving to get something to eat. I know they hunger for sex, I know they want me, I could just tell when they talk to me. Some of them of course, but I just kinda stop cold in my tracks. I guess I either don’t wanna have sex, or I can’t…Idk what it is. LMAO, great stuff though. I sometimes wonder how people don’t know this stuff, if I just know most of this through pondering.
OK,so I saw this video and will have sex
man,
thanks…you will help a lot of people.
waiting..for the next pat.
regards,
Alexandre – brazil PUA
Sinn,
How do you know if you really have an “issue” or it is just sexual anxiety? I have a gorgeous girlfriend, we’ve had sex a couple of times and when we get things started I usually go down on her and then when she really wants it, I can’t perform, nothin there. She thinks it’s her, when in reality it’s me. If I don’t go down on her and just basically get her turned on enough to have sex then I can do it, but it seems like that’s the only time it works for me… So is it anxiety cuz I do think about it a lot, or is it a real issue that I should seek some medical advice????
iM SO INTERESTED I CANT WAIT TO LEARN MORE I REALLY LIKE GIRLS ALOT AND ALOT OF SAY THAT IM CUTE SO I JJUST HOPE THAT I CAN GET LAID ALOT MORE WITH YOU GIVING ME THE BEST ADVICE
Great insight
Yo Sinn mad props. But I have to give it to Mehow because if I wasn’t affiliated with him I would have never seen this material. I have been in this scene for a little over two years and with what I know now your just handing me the short cut. Mad love from Maine-
In the last month or so I have ordered a couple of dvd’s which has led to scores of e-mail pitches to spend more money and I always end up with the same dissappointing feeling that there was very little substance in comparisson to what was promised.
In this one short vidio you cut through all the BS and gave more usefull practical, easy to get and remember info FREE! Thankyou I will be anciously awaiting your next vidio.
Michael Mayhew
I did listen to your vidio, and interesting concepts. It is about how you carry yourself as a person, and how confident you are as a man.
hola grasias por tu video tada esta informasion
esta muy interesante espero ber mas y aprender mas gracias por todo
Am I the only one who noticed that Neil Strauss’s The Game is actually about how the game DOESN’T work? The only way Style got the girl he wanted — the rock chick — was to stop being Style and just be Neil again. To stop playing The Game and just be real.
Great video Jon, but what do you think is the role of authenticity?
Ok, you talk about talking more sexually with a woman, that sounds like a lot of fun, but is there a limit, is there too much sexual talk? Can you turn her off by being too much of a “horn dog”?
Jon
Well done. I have led a lifetime of being the ‘nice guy’. The girls always came to me to cry on my shoulder after someone had broken their heart. I always got ‘why doesn’t he have a girlfriend?’.
Frankly I am sick and tired of it and fed up as well!!
Look forward to more insightful material to take me from nice guy to aware and ‘want to sleep with guy’!
I am in my 50′s so leaving my run a bit late but believe there are still opportunities out there for me.
Thanks again
There must be a fool proof way to attract women and to get them into bed quickly.As you say Jon both women and men love and want sex.I know that all women are slightly different but at the core there must be something that triggers and esculates sexual attraction with them.Maybe you are onto it.I hope so and am awaitng all of the further installments
Ey, been in this community 5 years by now. I already have a very very high skill and great experience, got these videos thru email. Just gotta say they are very good, and this is things Ive developed natural as some “techniques” to get laid, the faster you learn it, the better, GREAT stuff Sinn, thx.
Jon, of all the systems that I’ve seen, this is unequivocally the BEST, and especially…just “tailor made” for me, considering my own personal history, hangups, and wrong ideas that I’ve had through the years. I can hardly wait to start cashin’ in on the dividends. And just wait till you hear the punchline to my whole story……
Amazing stuff, I have been hit and miss your video helps to narrow down what to keep doing and what to flush, Thank you so very much!!!!
Jon, this is GREAT but if its like every other plan it wont work for me….. You have my attention though!!
Really looking foward to exploring more of your stuff Jon. Like many guys, I do not have the abiility go approach endlessly, to go out nightly, or to make my life entirely about pickup. Hearing that the standard models of pickup I’ve been taught are outdated or flat out wrong is kind of like music to my ears cause I , and many guys I know who are into pickup, are so over it. I hope your stuff delivers man and I’ll be looking forward to your emails.
K
So its Sunday morning and I just decided to see what you had to say. Well, thank you! Jon, I was on a tear in May getting laid 5x in a two week period of time. Guess what…it didn’t last. Besides being overwhelmed and worn out. I lost it. It’s truly the little things that damage a game and yet this is so huge when it comes to closing out women. I have met tons of wanna be PUAs and this aspect of sexual attraction never ever was addressed. Thank you again for the video.
Witster
Hey John,
You have certainly pointed out to me what I have been doing wrong — being the proverbial nice guy.
Now I know why I always ended up in the blind alley.
I am waiting eagerly to learn how to generate sexual attraction. I will be practicing more touching girls and women which I always avoided by not wanting to invade someone space.
Now I know how vital it is to come to sexual subject quickly and why touching is vital.
Thanx a zillion.
“Mike”.
After seeing this video, it’s like a light switch above my head. I’ve allways tried to be that guy that first get’s to know the girls and then later on escalating with sexual attraction, which as you know, fails almost 8/10 times. I’m super stoked about your videos and I’m most certainly going to follow/study each and every one. Keep up the good work! and thanks a lot for the videos
// Patrik
Interesting the way the process of setting up tention and attraction. Although I admit that addressing the topic of sex in a non-threatening way does help break the ice when the opportunity does arrive. Lets see how his works.
Great video Sinn, very realistic and well detailed.
More Power, Keep it Up!
JOHN THIS DEREK G.I JUST GOT FINISH LISTENING TO YOR VIDEO.THE PROBLEM I HAVE IS I DONT NO WHAT TO SAY TO A WOMEN FROM THE BEGINNING I NEED HELP QUICKLY AS POSSIBLE I AM BEHIND IS IT ANYTHING I CAN GET OR HAVE TO SPEED UP THE PROCESS.THE VIDEO WAS EXCITING I WANT TO LEARN MORE KEEP DOIN WHAT U DO BEST.MY EMAIL ADDRESS Is derekg_1402@yahoo.com
interesting… ill read on
Hey Sinn,
This video helped me to understand my sexual insecurities. Now I can get over them and finally feel comfortable about getting laid by tons of women.
I’m excited to learn more. I already saw the second video and I see how your techniques can be fun and effective.
i like all what you said coz thats thru is realy tought there is alot of thinks that we learn everyday i feel happy that im not the only one whit bad loock or no dont know how to talk to girl
Very interesting.
Seduction start from the “HELLO!”.
Holy words.
Just 2 weeks ago I’ve got this powerful intuition: girls (and any other people, for that matter) need to “identify” your type of person within the first couple of seconds they know you. According to the type of person you are (or what you communicate you are), they will “upload” a standard set of attitudes, ideas, smal talk and so on.
If they identify you are a “good” guy, they will not want to appear as slut in your eyes. They will not take any risk of broken social rules for you. The talk will be boring, based on common sense and the classic safe topics.
So better be identified as a hot guy, open minded, honey for sex, proud and confidendt. A guy who consider perfectly normal that a girls is honey for sex too, and to get laid the same night.
Remember the “identification” happens in the first couple of seconds she meet you, remember. So better don’t loose the chance to make she play YOUR game from the first moment.
What Sinn seach us here is, basically, how to start your game from the beginning, avoiding looking weird or just scare her.
Cheers up!
Phoenix
Your videos were very insightful. It will certainly help with going to make conversations with girls. It would be nice if you could include something about dealing with approach anxiety and how to overcome it so we can get into that conversation which entails sex and escalation.
True… great videos. The added part though and you definitely mentioned it. She has to be attracted to you first,that’s the first thing. The second part is the vibe she get from you on your conversation. It’s all about being smooth and confident. I would suggest though don’t call it technique or a system. Women I know don’t like it when guys say they have technique or using a system from the internet to get them in the bed. I would just call it STYLE rather than technique or system. I know technique and system sounds good for marketing purposes…but it don’t go over well with women when they found out it’s a technique or system for you rather than just being yourself. TRUST ME. I know. Again you are on point about letting her know your intent from the git-go. Looking forward for the next video.
How Doo Jon Sinn’ i some how missed the first vid and just view’d it and Amazing and Educating Material as too both sexual and basic’s of life,im just turn’d 48 and your more than young’r than i and Obviously “Although you hitting the nail right on the head and am much intuned for what your shareing outhere and is all so Fantatically Well Stressed to th in to the know ,Oh yah i been working on folllowing others in the net businesses for incomes streams and this is my Point to what im saying here your info is when thought about helpfull in many area’s of life ,C
cheer’s munn !!
only sex
I am interested for more examples of the field that have been sucssesfully used on pickin up women.
This sounds promising. More concrete details such as how not to come off creepy would help. My conversations tend to be boring so I picked up Bobby Rio’s conversation talks and heard about you from them. My conversation skills have improved, but I’m still a 30 year old guy whose last date was five years ago. I’m going to try the advice here and so if it helps.
Hey Jon Sinn very informative and great many things are hit dead on! can’t wait for more videos
great stuff Sinn… thanks for hitting on sexual anxiety and sexual attraction.
I always have a problem with setting the frames and whenever i try it leads to me and her walking away angry or annoyed.
What i do is i state/set the frame
i would have been talking for her for about a minute and then i say
“i don’t know if your cute enough for me”
her: “huh what do u mean?”
me: “your completely hitting on me”
her: “no, i’m not”
me: “yes, you are”
and so on for quite a while and we would both eventually leave
what do i do to prevent this but still set the frame?
Alotta what you said made sense. A few times I found myself looking back at times when I met a girl and had sex with her and realized what it was I did that got her aroused or horny. I’m merely interested in seeing how you can get other guys laid. I’m a skeptic but also open-minded. I’m def’ly gonna use your methods and see what happens. I’m 35 and single and have not had many girlfriends. My sexual partners are few and far between, however when I do get laid, it’s with a very attractive girl so I wanna see if I can make this happen more often rather than waiting months and months. Thanks for helping all of us out dude. That’s really cool of you.
sounds great. please provide sentence-based examples for each process so anyone can understand better…
was really nice hearing
apprecited
j liked was nice video as first step
Hey there, great and interesting stuff. I’ve just stepped into the PuA-Community a half year ago by reading the books you’ve mentioned in your video, like the one from Mystery and Style. And I was thinking that their way is the only way. Now I’m glad to find out, that you’ve created some shortcuts. I was afraid, I would have to learn some magic tricks and buy a pink and shiny Jacket or something like that. So thanks for making me save a lot of money and a lot more of time.
Greetings from Good Ol’ Germany
AWesome video! I haqd no idea that I have been doing all the wrong things!
I think it’s so cool dude, well, I’ve read the game twice and have purchased a few ebooks from David D and I do feel and am thankful for that there are some way cool guys out there who actually care about other guys and how they might be suffering because of the way society teaches us that it’s wrong but it’s not wrong whatsoever! We are all meant to be sexual ppl. We’ve all been programmed to act like wusses instead’a real men! Kinda sad how it would take bout an arm and a leg and months of anticipation (to save your pennies for those of us who are poor guys) .. I jus wanted to say that the detail you went into was very intense. I at first thought you were gonna jus get us interested and then WHAM! haha, ‘credit card’. But no dude, that was way cool. I would definitely recommend you to any of my friends, Sinn! Peace man.
very controversial! different technique.
After lisstening to your vido, I conclude: If put attention and follow the advice. You will became a real Don Juan. The MENkind is grateful to you. Keep on teaching, Master…. Gerry.
Sinn Thanks for the information. You have pointed out a lot of key point here that am going to use, and some bad habits that need corrected. Question what are some good ways to get one girl in a group to leave the group to talk? Question 2- some girls get clingy fast what do you tell them to keep things good / and understood that I like them and want to spend time with them but not a full time girlfriend?
I am impressed , really cool material
also john, i live in australia so the time diff may not make it possible for me to participate in the seminar.
so is there a product being released that encapsulates everything we need to know.
I found it very informative. I think I can use it to boost my game!
Sinn,
This is it !! I value and am looking for a LTR but want to KNOW as many woman as possible before I settle down with a girl. This stuff is unlocking my loving nature
I like it. It’s simple, and to the point. We’re not in it for validation or mind games, we’re in it to get laid. This alone sets it apart from most other pick-up techniques. I’m looking forward to the seminar.
I felt the video spend too much time on what not to do..insightful as it was it needs more examples and getting to the point a bit quicker would help alot.
cool man…kinda basic stuff with a couple of revelations. but a back to basics theme seems fitting for what you’re getting accomplished out there. keep up the good stuff man and thanks again for what you do!!!!
Fantastic stuff,looking forward to hear the continuation.Thank you.
Yeah! this is the stuff that i wanted.
This is great stuff to know. Thanks. But I do have a question, lets say, presently, I can’t take many girls on dates due to financial hardship, would that interfere in me getting lucky with these girls?
As always great stuff:)..really appreciate your work Jon!!!
Great stuff, thanks. i would love some examples of how you verbally turn girls on, such as how you switch the conversation to sex.
Great start to a few seduction training videos it seems.
Cant stop watching now.
Just got to see the other videos.
I will bed on a plane during the conference call, but would really appreciate access to the call. Will there be a link to a replay? Please. Thank-you.
My mind exploded when you started talking about the mystery method being shit….great stuff tho ill see where this is going
Refreshing to hear about the arousal… Good stuff Jon… Looking forward to the seminar and the continued roadmap.
Our theoretical representations of how something works often do not fit the practical realities. John, your comments place us back in the real world!
Hi.
It’s a very good staff; really dedicated. I appreciate the details and specific examples. Go ahead with Your work.
Chris
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I dont want to be a WUSSY any MORE!!!
Can’t find link to order product.
hi jon just liistened too yourteleseminar but cannot get on youe site to purshase ,,,,,,??? thanks ron borrow
The stuff being talked about is totally different from what I have learned. Before this video I thought that conversations with women were non-sexual, get to know you, I’m not a horn dog situation. Did not know I was shooting myself in the foot by not talking about sex. However, I always thought something was missing from my dialogue. How do I bring up sex in a non-threatening way.
A lot of what you say is like the LS Interview on Sexual Escalation, there are however Compliance Thresholds in this as well as any escalation, for example Kino. Using a sexual filter may be a way forward?
A lot of problems with rationalising with a girl are based around logistics and the fact that she has a boyfriend, this is LARGELY underestimated in the community.
I hope this reasonably priced, I dont live in America, I get around $8,600 per year in camparison.
This is wonderful video.THE PROMBLEM IS THAT I DONOT KNOW HOW TO TALK TO GIRLS .HOW TO START CONSVERATION .
THERE MUST BE ONE VIDEO RELEATED TO IT WHICH WII HELP ME AND OTHER GUYS THANKS
Sinn,
To be honest with you, I think this is one of the most important things to do: Sexual Attraction.
I’ve read almost every material out there and been partying for three years every weekend non stop, so I do have some kind of idea on what works and what doesn’t.
Sexual Attraction is definitely the most important thing and I’ve seen guys who get laid just because of it and have no idea about Pickup. They are just normal guys who had these things installed in them.
Thanks for the video mate! Looking forward to hearing more of this and putting it into practise IMMEDIATELY! It’s what I’ve been missing all these years!!
Cheers from Helsinki – Finland
I did learn alot bout this video like talking to a girl in the first 25minutes but i was thinking to myself, if i meet a girl in the streets but need to keep the convo short just to get her number, do i wait to talk about it after i get the number?
Sinn: good job in putting that kind of info out there for all of us guys
who want to learn and need to know how to start out. I have and can
do good with women but, what you teach can’t hurt. In fact it will
make us better men to reasure us that we can do it with the women we
want to. My question is what if you have a realationship with some-
one but, you want more can it work for both of them to use for the
one you are with and those you want to get! Im here to tell you it
does. I have the best of both worlds thanks to me and people like
you thanks.
I lost my phone and missed the call. Is there somewhere I can listen to a recording? You’ve got rock solid killer game Sinn! Don’t know where I’d be without you.
Hi Sinn,I liked your Audio record,I recegniced a lot of your techniques but do not practice these anymore because I am a bad artist,you right it is hard to start a conversation without topic,well the point is the action to go out there and practice,or dealing with that shitty feeling of rejection that takes your courage.I start in the very basement if I start,I dont know I will see.
Thanks for this man, I like how you take a step back from everything and say “what’s really going on here.”
Very insihgful video
what about picking up a guy or a girl?
Hey Jon,
You mentioned everything I need to get my game going in the right direction as if you were inside my head reading my thoughts. The next step is to get it out of my head and turn it into to real world results.
Thanks!
Been at this a long time from Ross Jefferies to mystery to neil to david D..You are right on ..most stuff does not work …you have to get sexual early on..Your future tips will be appreciated..to jump start action with a real world simple plan that you seem to have..very interested in future enlightedment…Thanks
Hey, Honeslty! I would be happy, on knowing how to make women approach me, & then hit the “sexual attraction button” & have sex with her the same day..Im already good at the whole “cocky funny” technique, & maintaining eye contact during conversations, but lately I feel like I kind of fell off, & really would like to have sex alot more often than I currently do, & with women I choose, not have to settle for. This is kinda sad, but in the last 6 months I have only slept with 1 girl, & it really sux going out on the weekends, knowing I might have to spend the night alone again.
Great video, very helpful. I’m looking forward to the next video. My problem is leading the conversation to sexual level. I can approach and open just about any girl, but my results aren’t as high as I want them to be. I want to close interactions that lead to more and more sex, which is my goal. So I want to see what the next video has in store and hopefully has the steps to get me where I would really love to be.
Thanks.
John you have made some good comments, I have a few problem attracting the women i realy like those that are ok I have no problem with and ofcourse I noted that my problem was that I allow the nice one to get in the friend zone as i treat them like queen and the others like shit. Years ago I said to myself that this is wierd but I still am doing the same today. once it someone i really like i turn into and 13 year kid.
Probably one of the best presentations I have heard. Well done.
Great stuff Sinn. Picked up a lot of tips from your video. Look forward to next one. Thanks !!
Hey Jon,
Thanks for doing all the leg work for all of us, literally. Lol,…
Was reading and applying Dave DeAngelo’s material a while back. Last Sum-mer met this woman, we dated all summer it seemed. She owns her own Hair Sa-lon (an is a nine+). We hit it off an it was very good. She invited me to her Mom and Dad’s cook-out an everythihng was going well. And, then she flipped out on me. She told me she needed some space, as she just lost her only employee, ok, so we kept seeing each other, then met other people. Before this, she told me I was a total package. And, it seemed things were going fine. She was starting to fall for me. Then she flipped out saying she was married to her HS Sweet-Heart an has only been divorced for one (1) year (I’m divorced 5+ yrs now). She wasn’t ready for me. She had to work full time for a couple of months. So, we took a break so she could get her business in order and still were seeing each other, on occassion, when we each met someone else. Would like to get that one back and keep her happy. Now, we’re seeing other people. What can I do to get her back. Plus my current room-mate (a guy) has a big mouth. He says he doesn’t want to lie for me. So, if I’m in the bedroom with a woman and another girl calls he says I’m busy? So, the other girl starts wondering. Why not say I’m out? That’s what I told him to say. It’s hard to have more than one with a jeal-ous room mate. Have to keep it on the DL some how. I know, get a new room-mate. Lol,… It would be good to see her again and have her over my place, but, my room mates a,… Thanks Jon,…
It was good to hear what you had to tell us.
I am interested in what you will teach us. All my life, I have always able to have sex with a woman with whom I wanted to take me to bed.
I am self-confident and have a high degree of self-esteem. I always was confident that however long it took me to get in bed with a woman I wanted
was fine. I was never in a hurry. I never masturbated (tried it several times) but didn’t succeed and so I was patient and always found an attrractive women who helped me get satisfied.
I will watch your future sessions with interest.
Matt
Very nice video. Open my eyes to this stuff I just got divorce after 23 years of marrige. Can wait for more info.
Thank you
Mike
I’m a 64 yr. old man whose wife died last year. I don’t want to spend the rest of my life alone and want to know if your information works for us older widowers too. Thank You, Bart
Very Interesting anxious to next part. Good start.
Great Video, i had read through and looked at a lot of those other sites and programs you mentioned, and had given up on them. They were all about going to bars and clubs, and I am not really that type of person. I don’t drink or dance, so I meet women elsewhere, your program sounds like it would be more beneficial to me in my natural environment, which is my work, I meet a ton of women at work, just need to focus my efforts better with them.
Seems to confirm what I suspected all along – things like getting a phone number are nothing, it’s the sexual part that’s the real sticking point.
Will continue to watch with interest.
Andrew ^_^
hello john it was a breath of fresh air to hear the truth about initiating sexual talk and attraction ….i am the guy in the friend list and I need to learn to get laid more keep it coming
thanks
Exelent video,an eye opener,good teaching for the guy like me love women more than food.Like to learn more ,great teaching.
Thank you.
Thanks for the upfront information. Looking forward to more information. Have never been good at this area, so anything you say will be helpful.
Valuable information I will see how it works in the next few days. Divorced after 30 years of being with the same woman since 14 this should prove to be very interesting. Thanks Robert
You, my man, are onto something. You are 100% correct that all the info out there is centered upon proving yourself to the girl, while trying to pretend you think you are the prize.
It’s disingenuous. And very few guys are able to pull it off consistently.
In order to get laid, you do have to prove yourself to the girl. But you must prove yourself sexually. It’s really very simple. You must prove to the girl you can arouse her in a way that breaks through her own barriers, issues, and hang-ups.
Women want sex as much as we do, probably much more. But they also take much more of a risk by engaging in sex than we do. That’s why we generally are the ones that have to figure out how to make it happen.
You are right. From ‘Hello’ you have to get yourself in to the ‘Possible Sexual Partner’ category in her mind. Every minute you spend in any other category is going to cost you at least 10 minutes more effort getting out of the category she’s placed you in.
Once you’re in the right category, all that’s left to do is show your stuff. And if you do it right, she’ll show hers…
Very useful reminder video, most of which I already knew but reminders can be
important. What blows me away is when you have the girl aroused and then
she suddenly turns off, even though you are doing everything right (no, I don’t have a strange body odor or bad breath!). You slow it down, then pick it up,
but it doesn’t resume the right way.
Thanks,
Wily
Just wanted to say thank you for this video im looking forward to much more i’ve never heard anyone speak abot sexual anxiety and thats hugh.
Dear John,
This is good stuff! I am married and don’t want to hurt wife but I am craving more naughty sex. Please help!
Just turned 57 been out of game for sometime now.Never was much of a player before.now I am all bt myself and not sure how to play the game any more.Your video helped some can”t wait to hear more.
I’m getting to bed 2 different women each week, so I’m happy.
It’s true what you say about bring up sex. You must talk about it, 100%
Touching women in the way that you explain is a must…100%
Dam it’s like listening to a little voice in the back of my mind. WOW you are the real deal. You guys need to listen to this information, 100%, because it is true about women.
I can remember meeting this girl in a pub and leaving after 10 minutes. next going from pup to pup. Then about 3 hours later, I found myself fucking her in someone’s front garden. lol We had to do a runner!
Good so far John. 80 yrs old and still getting it on. My experience/s prove you right in most of what you’ve offered so far. look forward to your next offering.
Fr John
I really appreciate what you are doing.It is like what you said in the video I already knew,but needed to here.I look forward to more of your great work.
hope this works as well as you make it sound, I was recently dumped by a girlfriend of 2 years and am still going through a lot of pain, thanks – give me more, please.
Offhand, I’d say that you come across in a different way than most pick-up gurus I’ve come across, & I’m really looking forward to the next installment. I also like the fact you’re not going for my wallet right away–that is, hitting me with a sales pitch.
Good info love it
thanks for sharing that it is ok to show interest for a woman I am attracted to (as long as am solid within) also thanks for sharing that the most important thing to get laid is to feel sexualy confident when I am with her… nothing to be ashamed of
My very first time decide to check you out. Man, i have to admit i’m looking forward to your next vid,bro. i like the part about your 46 yrs old Asian dude picking up a 23 yrs old chick? My new year resolution is to get laid every week and i hope your lessons are gonna help me out.
Keep up the good work!
God Bless!
EVO
Interesting video. I’m 43 and hearing about how this 46 year old guy picked
up 23 year old girl gave me some hope that I could date girls in their early 20′s without guilt. What motivated me to start learning this stuff is I had a secret crush on a girl who was 22, and I had no earthly idea on what to do. I intially felt a little guilty until I read ‘The Game’ and heard about how Mystery slept with a 19 year old girl when he was 45. That’s when I started asking myself this question, “What Mystery would do if he was in my situation.”
hello John your teachings about laying down and sexual attraction looks amazing..well i have one question all you talked about is when the interaction happens face to face but how about when you meet a woman in a dating site will this work..i mean do we have to apply it right from the word go as you said seduction starts from the hello??? when you and woman are interacting trough emails or phone and who have never seen each other physically before or is it better to wait till we meet face to face and then bring sex on the table until then just create verbal sexual attraction trough emails and phone calls will it work that way???
well your ideas and teachings in this area here could be greatly helpful because these days many guys are using dating sites to meet a woman.
I have the seduction part about women and sex well perfected I’m actually good at sex just not confident enough that my penis is to her liking.My problem is sexual anxiety, just not able to stick to the general subject or interact physically with her leading up to the bed room. I want to be sure that when i feel that she wants to be touch , and that she wants to be kissed that she really wants those things and it’s not just me lusting her and she not lusting me.Keep dropping this good stuff and my confidence and attitude about woman will esculate and may God shine down his light on me.
T^he information was refreshing and thought provoking.
It should work.
Hi Jon,
This is highly intriguing, fascinating and powerful stuff. I have a specific woman in mind to escalate with so am looking to improve my ‘game’ to that end. Knowledge is power and confidence in your game are both essential – and that is what I see your system doing – hopefully anyway.
Looking forward to the next one.
Warm regards
Andy H
I’m 58 years old, have never been married, and haven’t even had a steady girlfriend in over 25 years. In addition, I’m among the many guys who were brought up to believe that sex,especially before marriage, is somehow dirty and wrong. As a result, I have a lot of anxiety, sexual and otherwise, when it comes to interacting with women I’m attracted to. jon’s first video left me feeling that such reactions are common and quite normal. I’ll definitely be back for vodeo #2 so I can learn even more.
Great stuff ! You really simplify things!I have used some of this in the past when younger,and actively dating,before settling down and having a family! Now Im in my 50s have been raising my 4 kids on my own for 11yrs.and am now getting back into dating! I used to get laid a lot when young and once took 3 women home at seperate times during one night! I got laid with all 3 before midnight! My ex girlfriends father was renting a room from me at the time! He seen me bring the women home at seperate times during the night,and take them to my bedroom! When he seen me come in with the third one he took me aside a said”son I hope you are using protection” then grinned a big smile! Now I find it very hard to get back into meeting when going out but meet a lot on the comuter sites ! I still talk sex to them in a joking way and have met a few for coffee and been laid twice this way ! But this is over a 1 year period! Im feeling a little intimidated because of age and not being in the best shape now days,but the desire is alive and well!lol So I guess I could use some pointers on getting laid more offten at my age and some confidence building! I know what you say works!—Thanks Jon…..Mike.
Jon,
I never had problems meeting women, I am handsome and agressive. But You taught me to focus on my ultimate goal, the only goal, quickly.
Thank You.
Bocaccio
The video was very interesting – and I understand some of the techniques. However, applying them and listening to them are two different things. The video could use more interactive with women – not just talking and a little power-point.
this is great stuff, awesome!this will help guys who are innocent or lack the knowledge or are naive about women get the confidence and skills and know how to be successfull with women.
Just being honest::: i’ve been into porn way too much and shut down the reality aspect of sex. it’s been a couple years since i’ve played with a girl and hope to unleash in 2011.
I totally agree with what you said and hope you get to the point eventually. it is kinda vague to leave it as saying you have to be sexual right off the bat. that is good to know but you haven’t given us too much. however, i do appreciate everything and i am may not be a worthy critic whatsoever.
i would like to add that humor goes a long way as long as you don’t over do it and are honestly funny. looks are important no matter what, girls can be more picky that us guys.
this was cool
Dear John,
Great video, thanks. I seem to be able to strike up conversations with women on a regular basis with little difficulty but I’ve begun to realize it’s because I usually present myself in a non sexual way, a man with no ‘intent’. I’m pretty fed up with this way of communicating now as I’m just beating around the bush due to lack of confidence, fearing I’ll scare the woman away or of being rejected ! I’m hearing you loud and clear though so keep it coming.
jone thank you for this lessons I find it important but if you add some example like how can i bring up sexual conversation where to start it would really be great
thank you very much
Hey, John, I think you hit it right on the head about women’s sexuality. And you are right, getting her aroused is the number one route to getting it on with her.
I’m 60 (going on 19) and have a strong preference for very young, very hot women. While some women will write you off based on age alone, there are plenty that appreciate the experience and maturity and confidence of an older, attractive man (the latter factor being one I strive to maintain). And those are the ones I aim for. If they feel the arousal you’re in and of they don’t you can kiss it off. And you are so right, that it must start right from the beginning.
Looking forward to seeing your future installments and gleaning your knowledge.
Hi, I should mention that you are really generous. Other PUAs would be trying to mint money with these videos and explanations. looking forward to the remaining tutorials, and will implement what has been taught today.
Hi John. Very good video. Thanks for taking the time to make it. A question: what do you think should be the balance or ratio between trying to meet women online and trying to meet them in face-to-face interactions out in the community? Should it be 50/50, 60/40, 80/20 or what? Thanks so much!
Hey John,
I’ve always doupted myself about talking about sex with women, and often wait for them to bring up the subject first. However, your video makes a lot of sence, i.e. you’re not going to have sex with a girl if you don’t talk about it with her. LOL! Initiating this sex talk by joking about sex is another mind-blower. I’ll be eagerly waiting for your next video. Till then ‘Getting laid is a good thing!
You make some excellent points. At first, I was apprehensive because of the focus on getting laid. I do want to get laid but I don’t want to come off as a creep or pervert. I need to work on overcoming years of misinformation. When you talk about same night lays, it sounds scary because I am not used to getting action that fast. I don’t want to be accused of coming on too strong although a softer approach doesn’t always work, either.
Very good video it does leave me wondering where i go from here. I look forward to learning more and getting laid more.
Very good explanation of where we are and where we are headed, Lookinf forward to tomorrow
Hey jon, this approach concept you have is undoubtedly the most unique and sincere technique I have come across in a long time! It’s straight and to the point. It describes everyday encounters that men have with accuracy and realism. You hit the nail on the head my friend.
Fantastic, Keep the good work. The point is I am Indian and we have a different set of rules applied to sex and dating. The points you have discussed has to be modified according to the Indian context to be fruitful here. The basics I feel are universal. Let me try with your ideas in mind
Thank You
thought this whole piece of information was useful and helpful! After reading, it made me think how easy this shit is you know! I use to think attraction building was hard but now after listening, its like wow, that’s it?
And most of these things, I already posess, so now its time to review, apply this 2 the real world and like how my people say “GET IT IN”! thanks
i’m tired to be just a friend. I’m starting to spend time with a hot girl who i think is attracted to me, and i dont want her to get bored as the other ones i had spent time with. Man I’m so excited because everything you said appears to the great magic trick, it all makes sense!
looking forward for your next vid
GREAT STUFF!I AM LOOKING FORWARD TO SEE MORE
Great video I already do some of the things you were talking about as far as escalating but I could always learn more right now I’m getting about two girls a month in my bed I’d like to increase that to at least double. I’ll stay tuned!
I found that everything you said makes a lot of sense. I’m taking some college classes and there are so many hot girls that always smile at me and talk to me which is great, but I am lost as to how to a really be able to talk to these girls in a way that will build the sexual tension you’re talking about. Youi have some grat advice that you’ve given me so far that I know I will be able to use! Thanks a ton man, and I’m definitely going to be keeping up on your stuff
you know , all puas talk about eachother , each one says that the other guy’s system sucks , how would i know whats the best system?
Very nice but, If you could give some exact verbal details on what you actually say to get a womans attention, I think it would be a great foundation to start with. Like the first 2 mins of what you actually use youself.
Thankx, Richie
It was wonderful information.I purchased Natural seduction and I thought it was wonderful idea not act like a dancing Monkey.This stuff really works after your learned basic skills like body language etc.Unfortunately,I learned great concept but I did not see some model presentation from Sinn.People more expect some simplified technique in your face.Sinn did not take advantage of DVDs format.
His concept is well structured and easy to understand but if you have no boot camp experience or you have not seen how you use tonality and body language beginners feels left behind.Sinn has whole wonderful skill sets and Many people see him on Mehow infield stuff,If infield is difficult technically,he could at least demonstrate his simplified techniques on controlled situation following by his structured concept.
For intermediate or more,Sinn’s natural attraction is break through experience for them for beginner.He should have show some example.
This seduction road map presentation was wonderful but if this is DVDs,he should show some examples not afraid creating dancing monkey,they don’t do that they want some example.they want some picture of what they are doing.
this is my questions plus If this one shows exmaples,it must buy!
Hi Jon,
It’s really good presentation and everybody wants to know how much is this program?I would like to buy this.If you show demonstrations on DVDs.I know it’s controlled environment but beginners need concrete pictures.
Brilliant video Sinn,
Its right on and to the point. It clearly defines where a lot of us are really at in terms of our success with women (consistenly that is) that we’re really not expressing our sexuality – based on our fears and sexual anxiety in its many forms. I’m out there in the game approaching, building comfort, etc BUT proof is in the results. I’m looking forward to getting this handled and putting it into action.
All the best
Nice to see this information being brought forward. It’s something I’ve always gone into with my mentored students, but not something I’ve really elaborated on in video/print material (at least into the depth it sounds like you’re taking it). I look forward to the other videos!
Thanks for the video, something hit me like a train whilst I was watching it! For a while now I’ve been bombing out with women despite being able to engage them quickly and easily in conversation. Thanks to your video I now know my problem. I don’t know if I can fix it but at least I now know what it is. Thanks.
Great stuff! looking forward to see the next videos!
Badass… nuff said!
its simple if you want to get laid you should mention sex in conversations in order to get her aroused wow its so simple thansk dude
Nice video, can you also describe a situation and go into the details, like what to say.
great video jon, cant wait for the next one….
i want to know what those 4 steps are!!!!! i guess this video is just an introduction to whats gonna be shown on the net few videos!! actually i was a bit impressed with this guy talking!!!! he said things that i heard and read before that were split in different articles, and he has put them together. as far as here i have not much to say about it, i m just a bit curiouse to see what comes next!!!! lets hope it is good stuff and does not let me down like every time i get on the internet searching for something like this!!!
Hi Jon,
You’ve given out some aggressive tips. I too believe that the first choice should always be a bit aggressive.
Thanks Jon.
regards,
Gaurav
good info..looking forward to the next videos..
Sounds good, looking forward to hearing more.
So, how do I purchase the Roadmap?
waiting for the next. greetings from poland
thanks
Hey Jon
Great stuff. Actually I had girlfriends. As soon as I am sexual with women I’m confident and everything is okay. Opening is better than 3 years ago and getting phone numbers pretty easy. The main sticking point I have is to escalate physically and verbally. In my childhood I was taught to death that having sex with women is bad. That a boy should not touch a girl and sex before marriage is not good blablabla… Sometimes I feel this is still holding me back on a subconscious level even though I know this is all bullshit. Any suggestions for breakthrough?
Cheers Juan
This is great for anyone not starting from ground zero!
Marathonman
Kudos Sinn! It’s about time that someone left the “mamby pamby” world when dealing with women. Being direct is where it’s at! Putting up with “brain damage” due to “daddy issues” is the worst tact guys can “wade in”. Getting to the point of the “why” we even hang around is SO refreshing. I can speak for having been young and foolish and attempting to appease every little non-sensicle thought that comes around. If you’re not grabbing for the brass ring; someone else surely will be and then you’ll be experiencing that moment of clarity that comes from being a chump and wondering “why” she left you for someone else. Looking forward to the next video and no nonsense approach to getting what you want most out of life; satisfying yours and her sexual desire…without it; you have a dying relationship!
Thanks a lot man. This is really a science. I’m impressed with this shit. You’re so right about the mood and arousal. Girls will do almost anyone when their aroused enough and feel comfortable. It’d be great if you could talk more about this.
Yo, i’m really excited for the next part of the video. The main issue i want to make sure i have resolved for good is to behold to Start and Hold a fun/sexual conversation. Approaching a girl is no problem, just that my biggest fear is to fall into “interview mode” if i can easily start & hold a conversation anywhere, anytime. I’d probably have no other problem with getting laid. I’m not scared to talk to a girl, i’m not scared to get sexual. Just the fact that i don’t know where to start the conversation now & then.
Thanks in advance
Kaz
Also, it’d be great if you could talk about how to not be creepy about being sexual; and I mean how to be sexual right off the bat and continue a conversation from a simple hello into talking about sexual things and making a connection.
Awesome. This is how it should be; stripping away the bullshit that doesn’t get you either A- laid, B- A girlfriend that your actually attracted to or C- both.
Essentials is what I want, not beleifs, not left brain strategies created by guys and designed to appeal to guys.
Nuts and Bolts
Cheers Jon
I like that you say seduction starts at hello. I knew long ago that it was easier to seduce if I was open about my intentions. The other thing that sounds very useful is writing down the process from saying “hi” to her, to her saying “fuck me now.” I will do that now, after I take my kids home to their mom’s house.
Hey Jon,
I’m really interested in the Roadmap, but how do I get a hold of it?
cool stuff. looking forward to seeing the next vid.
interesting approach. different from annything else, but i think that is right stuff.
Thanks Jon for the info pretty cool stuff,finly someone that wants to help lookin foward to your next video,thanks again man!
Great stuff! I believe this will help me greatly. Can’t wait to see what is in the next videos.
Hey, it was really refreshing to hear someone say out loud what I’ve been thinking about.I’ve been in this “community” for about 10 months, and have been going through a lot of stuff and transformations, one of em was the feeling like all this is really has to be a lot simpler than what was the mainstream taught from my own experience and watching naturals around me.I guess the bottom line is, I want to be able to have sex consistently with girls I find really attractive without having to go the scenic route if you know what I mean and do it directly, how can I possibly do that in just 4 steps?Also how the hell do you keep the conversation sexual, I did it twice before with girls I really found attractive, but after my last breakup it feels like I got retarded, I just want to be able to do that every time, not just when I stop thinking due to extreme horniness in fluke cases?
After applying just a few principles my interactions with women have definitely changed for the better. I can see now consistent responses from women when it is done right.
You are an amazing teacher. I can now see where I made mistakes as I look back on all the beautifull women who wanted to have sex with me but some of the pieces of expressing sexuality correctly were not there yet.
My 2011 will be amazing thanx to you. So let’s get started with the program.
I’m interested in seeing if your roadmap is beneficial for older men to pull much younger women. Not really interested in the gf/bf thing just want several “go to girls”. Don’t want to have to go through all the BS of establishing value and having to continually prove myself to get the girl in bed. Looking forward to hearing more.
Your video explained ALOT of what has worked and why. Now I just got to get her back. Thanks.
Hey John,
My natural senses indicate you are right on the money. I have a few comments to make about the video. I am not sure what is in store in the next videos, but I do know lots of guys have approach anxiety. How are they going to apply your lessons if they can’t work up the courage to approach the girl to begin with? I get those feelings if the girl is extra attractive, but I still approach anyway. Some just find it very hard to do.
Another observation I find, well, humorous, but sad as well. All the money charged for those past Mystery boot camps. You know, the ones that we’re pretty darn expencive? I’m glad I didn’t do them finding out they are a waste of time. Would much rather get down to brass.
Thanks for what you are doing for the community.
Thanks for the redirection as I was reading up on the other material thats out there I always wondered why it felt like something was missing. I want to learn more on how to verbally arouse as well as physical.
it’s cool stuff…good idea, good idea i need to try it..but is is different culture could lead to different result? i life in a such a traditional culture in Indonesia, any ideas?
Hi there,
I’m a 24 year old guy from europe.
This video was pretty interesting, but as I see it some of us may want to speed up things quickly =)
I must say The Mistery Method is nice but can be difficult to follow.
Alot of things and ways should be easier and really effective!
This is just a little something I had in mind =)
Hope its useful =)
I think it will work really good for me. I have always been a little timid talking with women, and run out of things to talk about with them early, and never really brought up the subject of sex with any of them so quickly either. Thanks for the road map for getting myself past the friend zone area!!!
Sexual anxiety is a big problem many guys are unaware holds them back from approaching from what ive seen in a few wings.I believe in calibrating the type of girl and play the sexual escalation on top of that to hit the nail on the head as some girls are looking for preferred pre-sex interactions depending on their personality type: fun,connection,random,female player,professional etc..
Cool vid Jon always new awesome stuff!
great video!
one question: i already have this sexual/teasing relationship with many women. however, this doesn’t end up in sex. should i push harder? or maybe they think i’m “joking”, which i am partially. suggestions?
I found the entire video quite informative. I have a question, what if flat out broke and unemployed and I want to get women to bed, should I aim low like 6 & 7 or aim high 9 & 10′s?
The best, common sense advice I’ve heard!
Good job!
I just cant get a woman to like me all I`ve tried
First off i would like to thank Mr. Sinn for making this video, it seemed like this was made exactly for me, espescially with all the talk about sexual anxiety. You talked about building attraction with women and filtering it with sexual attraction if i am not mistaken. What way do you think is the best way for going about that?
I found this quite interesting would like to hear more
great content as always jonn. i am relatively new to game after coming out of a long term relationship and being awful with women in my youth. i find you’re one of the few pu artists who’s actually a normal guy. i’m not into silly pua lingo, peacocking and routines.
Nice work Jon. Love the cerebral approach. Thanks.
Jon–Really great info, in general. Here’s my conundrum about what you discuss. To me anyway, any girl who agrees to get laid on the first date or even the 2nd, is basically a slut and low class, so while I appreciate learning how to expidite this process, doesn’t getting laid with a quality woman take a little time? Or am I just missing the boat, so to speak? No offense to Mystery, but just the look of him is a major turn off with all his insane piercings, hat, etc. Keep up the good work. “Every day without getting laid is a tragedy” that my friend made up–but true. Hence, you are helping people avoid tragedy:) Brian
I went through the Mystery method with little success. This makes a lot more sense.
Great Stuff…
Can’t wait for tomorrow…
Hey there John. I really liked this video. To me, it is the most direct way of imparting the information to us guys who really need it. Everything you’ve said so far is hard hitting and true and I needed to hear it the way you put it out there. I’m not much for alot of reading, so this video is exactly what the doctor ordered. Thanks alot bro… Looking forward to your next video.
wow! nice work jonh. u are a great guy with great stuffs. I hav actually used your “using relationship ladders ” techniq couple of times in the past without knowing it . And it was rlly successful those times. pls jonh keep up the gud work cuz u ar helping a lot of guys out there. nd I cant wait to get those materials nd videos that ar yet to come. just keep doing gud john ur the BOMB!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
i liked what Jon is saying here, it makes sense and looks more natural, simpler, logical and effetive than other techniques i’ve seen but not tried… I feel this would give me the results i’d ike in attracting women!
Nice one Jon, thanks
Nice talk Jon.
I have had women all my life and my relationships last between 1-2 to 7-8 years. Now I am stuck with a girl 41 years younger than me ( I am 66) who thinks she is a princess and does not lift a finger to do anything at all. She goes to party every night. She is born in the sign Virgo and pretends to herself to be a virgin. Because of her teasing long legs I did a prayer to compel her to be mine, and she gives sex on average 3x a month, while I want more. I will listen to your next tapes to see how to arouse her more. One peculiar thing is that I only like young girls and 6 relationships all started with a 19 year old, the last one too.
Thanks for helping,
you may reply to me to learn more about my sexual encounters.
Simple and makes sense…great stuff.
Good info please keep it coming Thanks
Hi John Sin
i really enjoyed listening to your seduction video
all the videos you have on seduction please send them to me
iam 100% positive it will help me improve my interaction
attracting women and becoming sexual with them on a regular
basis i look forward to hearing from you again soon. cheers Dale
great stuff…really and works all the time just because all you say makes
a lot of sense…period
Frank
Hi,
the four part seduction technique is awesome, the first ‘Hello’ to having sex with women is just fantastic, how ever I’ve read some where about the different types of women and the age factor.
At my age I love the hot bodies of younger women but they dont have much up stairs and bore me with their stupidness and the older ones are just too damm cocky and smart arsed, they start to go weird on me.
Oh, and they are great liars, I suppose thats where I pull the plug most times, I cant get over believing any thing these women tell me or say.
Qualifying women and finding the right girl for myself is becomming harder and harder to find, sure their hot, but looks are’nt every thing, but I dont want to end up with a dog either.
I’ve had girls enough to bring back to my place, but in the end I did’nt want to to the dirty on them because I did’nt think they deserved my sexual attention, I did’nt feel like kissing them or going down on them or any forplay..nothing. Sometimes I think a root is a root, but I dont want to have that feeling of uglyness drooped around me.
I know I have the skills and with your help, other guys like me, surely will get the results we require.
Cheers, have a fun day.
Hendrik
Sydney Aust.
“James Woods! …catch the frizbee in your mouth!!”
…frizbee bounces out of James Woods’ mouth…
“What’s my motivation Peter?”
Thanx for the “for instance,” insights! Often for online “FREE,” means anticipation, building to sell …Sin is delivering for free, and thus far is filling this dry sponge.
1000 thanx Sin, I will be in your debt if it helps me at ALL
Chad
I studied Mystery and attended a bootcamp in which Style was signing “The Game” right after it was published. I found their insights and suggestions invaluable, so I don’t agree that the method is flat out incorrect.
The biggest flaws were the linear approach to a species — women — who are anything but linear and applying this approach to all women, as if a 23-year-old club girl is the same as a 32-year-old professional single mother.
That said, I found your video exciting and revelatory, and I sense that you may be making a quantum leap from the foundation that the PUA pioneers laid. I agree that some instructors in the field focus too much on flirting and getting attention from women, rather than getting sexual.
Lstely I’ve been drawn to teachings that emphasize approaching women with a strong sexual frame and intent, then letting everything flow naturally from that core — the teasing, kino, verbal foreplay and escalation.
Look forward to the next installments. Wish we could get it in one bite, rather than piecemeal.
thanks man! it’ll be really interesting to do all this stuff!
Brilliant!
This was a good vieo. You actually made it clear and concise, unlike the others where they seem to go in circles. They say a lot without saying anything at all. Thanks
Unfortunately I have met one of my tens and have been dating her for about 3 weeks. After listening to what you have said I realize I have made some major mistakes. I know that she wants to be with me but things have slowed down and I was wondering if there’s something I can do at this point to move forward.
thanks for the good info. There are so many people out here puting out pick up info and it’s hard to know what is valid. I have noticed though that I do get a lot of long conversations and ploped into the friend zone. What you are saying may have merit. can’t wait to test it out. R
very impotrtant video,,,,,
the best
I have always been sexual in conversation but I have failed most of the time because my art was too forward. I am going to try this technique to see what happens. I would like more examples to help me refine myself. I am more of a visual kind of person. I need more beautiful women in my life. At 47 it doesn’t get any easier.
What if shes a virgin and doesn’t have sex til marriage?
I found out that all the things i have been doing allthese years are wrong, and I also figured out what to do to correct the problem. I am one of those men raised to not talk about sex, or anything sexual around women. But insted of avoiding the subject of sex, use it in subtle ways, that will attract women, and get them into bed. but be careful not to over do the subject, or it could have the reverce efect. Thank you for your time and video, I am a 58 year old man atracted to a 25 year old woman. If I get her, it will be largely because of you and your video.
sounds cool.
good stuff
You’re doing just great….. absolutley. I know you know your shit. I want to learn it. Thank you.
All in all, what really matters is getting them in our beds. Thank you very much for your work
Jon- This info is really really applicable and explains much of my trouble with going all the way with a woman! will definitely change my approach and I am sure success. TYVM!
Great concepts. How can get access to the follow up video 2 and 3?
You opened my eyes,
i feel like im going right way, you just cut my time of learning how to pick up. Thanks a lot. Good luck
Jon, have great stuff I don’t type alot I’am 55 single and dating a 44 year old women would like dating other women and the 44 year at same time. She’s looking to get married and I’am not just want to have fun. Have any pointers? Thanks keep up the good work. Wish this stuff was around wend I was younger.
most powerful stuff i have ever read and tried out .
thanks Sinn . keep them coming . !!
EXELENT!!!
Sounds great. Curious what the next few steps are and how useful they will be ! Keep up the good work
I agree with that for the most part. I, like Style, investigate as many different approaches and theories to make my own. This video proved very truthfull in what I already do in my method. I eagerly await your next video.
Interesting to see where all this goes.
Good video.
I’m from the U.K and have been struggling with this stuff for a while now…
this video far surpasses pretty much ALL of the stuff I have read so far.
I know I have it in me, I can feel it. It’s getting passed that barrier.
I guess my problem is a fear of success :S
Great stuff anyway and much appreciated.
What’s left to say. You know your stuff. You know the score about these things
You talk a lot about your students…how do I become one of your students?
Wow great stuff!!!!
You sure do know what you are talking about and everything make sense!
Thanks a lot Sinn!
Very informative and good information that sound practical.
great video, cant wait for next one, in this video u mention that u do make a sexual joke with in 5 mins of meeting woman. what happens when u on ur work situation or social enviourment? for my thing is i do lot of work and there is plenty of hot chicks comes to my work place but with me i have 3 girls colligue who comes from strict religious back ground and we all are asian where culture is very much diffrent then europe or states and education level is diffrent and mentality is diffrent. indeed i would love to pull 2 of them who are strict muslim.i do joke around with them and i do touch them some time on hands or shoulders or i do tease them verbal but i would like to know your opinion as what you would do in those situation where you dont have to go though complications and you do get laid. you can write me on my personal email as well which is just_2_hawt@hotmail.co.uk
Good work Jon!
Nice one, still a little bit vague. only, women are emtional based and need a lot of mental arousal, it`s what gets them over the edge. still good vid. i`m looking forward to the next one
Finaly someone with a new perspective. I’m still a little sceptical yet will check out your stuff and hope it proves true.
how can I buy the product? the “mystery” on how to do so is tiring
how can I buy it? the suspense is killing me
your work is great. cant wait for the next video to learn your approach and test it in the real world as soon as possible.
Well, as I see it its not that thows other methods are dead wrong..
just extremely ineffective. Still, the problem of transforming knowledge to effect is vary real as I should know. What exactly in your method help me get over that fence?
i like your technique because it elimanates all the point less activities that were old fashion. I really cant wait to see your new video I really need this!!!
I used to practice seduction at Waikiki Beach and learned it DOES begin with Hi!. When talking to Japanese or other foreigners whose English skills may have been weak, I learned to use the eyes at once so there would be NO DOUBT about what was on my mind. I offered a one hour massage for $10 right where she was sunning, because it took me 2 weeks of daily failures to learn nobody wanted a “free massage”. The physical connection then came on strong as rubbing new women you select from thousands allowed them to feel there was more than “just a massage” going on. Because 100% of them had a hotel nearby it was easy to offer to continue “the massage” at her place. Even if she didn’t have enough cash on her to pay me, it was never the $10/hour. And it never failed that when we got to her place to get paid, I got paid!
I think you actually grabbed my attention away from mystery and style. As much as I’m trying to learn they’re process it just not good enough. I mean I get lucky and I’ve gotten better but I think there is an easier way like you said. Can’t wait for the next video.
great video and i do see your point the only problem is to make a statement such as for all the techniques we have learnt so far are wrong it seemed you were talking a lot of information but didn’t seem like there was much substance as to exactly what is right and wrong and what we should replace the outdated ineffective knowledge with
I’ve seen men pick up women without saying a word to them in the clubs so I have to think that long drawn out stories isn’t needed everytime but I do see the need to also have good conversation with the girl and I think this method will help me do that from what I heard from the video.
okay then thats been informative what else is happenning in this arena.thank you much man !!!
Great weblog, I’m going to spend much more time reading about this subject